i tried sex with my bf buncha time but when ever he tried to put the whole thing off ithrt me so bad?
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Sometimes ovarian cysts or polyps in the vagina can cause intense pain during intercourse. If this is more than just tightness you may want to consult a doctor. I don't mean to scare you!
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I can't figure out if you need lube or if he's gay.
You gotta get into it slowly Try some foreplay or some toys It'll get better for you
first few time? well try to relax. it hurts the first few times.
next time you hit that damn thing with a hammer if it gets near you again! OKAY?
Tell him to try foreplay. Ur probably not wet enough down there, and besides, that helps u get bigger, so he can slide in with a little more ease, and hey, u need to be lubed too.
It shouldn't hurt. How old are you? Perhaps you are just too young for this sort of thing. Is he being rough? Have you tried oral instead?
Sure I shall help u
if you do it a few times it will start to feel better
This is definately one of the reasons why it is best to wait until marriage, this type of trial is not meant for a simple bf/gf relationship! That being said some girl's are really small and are either not wide or not deep enough to contain a male. From personal experiance it may take months, many months, for you to be comfortable having sex and it may be that certian positions will never be comfortable. Some positions may be more condusive given your body size, however, so you may have better luck say, on top as opposed to on the bottom, or visa versa. But I advise waiting until you're married, that way you only have to go through the painful process of getting used to a guy once!
well hes afraid to show his feelings so you need to tell him that you love him and that you want have sex with him its that simple!
Oh no, what did it hurt? what position have you tried when you have been trying to have sex? I don't know, there's a thing called, having sex during pregnancy, it would hurt you if you have sex during pregnancy, kind of a thing that your penis can feel something like a knife inside your vagina's.
U must be a first time gay, thats why you ask such questions.anal is more painful than breaking a virginal.Girls as young as 12 yrs old after a few time they can handle any size..so be frank...
well if you don't want to do sex anymore than stop. just tell him that your not ready for it yet and tell him that maybe you 2 could maybe still be boyfriend friend. If your 2 young you shouldn't do it. because if your having your period and you have sex with a boy and sleep with him you could get pregnant.
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Well either you are really small (opening) or he is really big. If you start off with foreplay with him playing with you to "excite" you this may help sometimes natural lubrication helps when its "tight" Try a different position to start off with which is more relaxing for the vagina. like missionary or spooning. Trying doggy first is never a good idea for some reason.your "smaller" i don't know why I am very "small" down there and it tends to hurt me alot when we just try and go at it so don't feel bad if it hurts stop don't feel bad its just life it will happen right soon. hope this helps.
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