what could be killing my sex drive?!?


Question:
usually, i have a MASSIVE sex drive.. i'm usually up for it several times a day, much more than my husband. he went on a nine day trip for work, and when he was gone.. i was really horny, but i stayed occupied hanging out with my friend, and it didn't get too bad, because she and i were busy doing other things and i kept my mind off of it...

but, then, when he got back, i haven't been horny. the first 2 times we had sex were okay... i was kinda into it.. but i haven't wanted to initiate it, and i'll start to get into it, but right as i get ready to get off, i get all turned off.. and i'm just DONE with the experience..

i'm not on ANY medication, besides some ibuprofen and tylenol for some strained ligaments in my knee.. any ideas? its really freaking me out.. i haven't had sex in 3 days.. and i haven't even wanted to LOOK at my husband's penis... its so freaking me out..

Answers:
For only 3 days, I wouldn't get too alarmed. You didn't mention your age. You could be going through some hormonal changes, body changes, or even some type of stress that is affecting you right now. I wouldn't get too worried over 3 days. It happens to all of us from time to time. Sometimes there just comes a time your mind is on other things and you don't think about it or you don't feel like it. It will come back. If it doesn't, then speak to your family doctor. It could be something medical going on and/or even physiological.
Maybe you suspect he was unfaithful to you.

Go talk to a psychologist, priest, or philosopher. Get second opinions. Get marriage counselling. It's possible there are other issues which you've been pushing out of your mind.

You're not depressed are you?
It's called marriage.


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