dealing with my "little" sister?

Question:

This has been REALLY bothering me lately. My little sister has bigger breasts than I do. I am 14 and she is 12 and I really do not need a bra. Whereas she is a B. We share the same bedroomand she is not shy about being naked in front of me. Sometimes I think she does it on purpose. It isn't fair! I thought sisters were supposed to share the same genetics in this sorta thing. Does anyone else have this problem? How did you deal with it?

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My 14-year-old sister has much larger breasts than me, and I'm 18. I used to be bothered by it, but look at it this way:

You're not getting another body, so you may as well love the one you have. Large breasts aren't all they're cracked up to be. We smaller-chested girls can jump around without attracting unwanted attention, we have the advantage while playing sports, and we know a guy will never like us for our boobs. Besides, you're only 14; your breasts may still grow. In the meantime, respect all parts of your body. :)

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Everybody is shaped different, and devolps differently. thats jusat kinda the way things are. Be glad you don't need a bra, they aren't the most comfortable things. I wear a DD, and I can't go anywhere without one. I'm jealous of you both.

Give time and your body will change.

just give yourself time to grow

look at her and say... 'hey your fatter then me' and of course she'll ask 'how' and you respond with. 'well, breasts are all fat and yours are larger' plus remind her that having bigger breasts earlier in life gets them to be saggy earlier.. :)

Hi,

My sister is 5'6", 130 pounds and has size 34 B. She was always smaller than me. I never flaunted it in front of her, though, maybe because she never let on that it bothered her. Ignore your sister's flaunting. Try to figure out why your current size (which will change as you grow older, most likely), bothers you. Just be thankful you are not an AA (some women are).

I am 5'5", 217 pounds and a 44C. Don't worry about it now, you may have the last laugh later, if she continues to gain size

There are no guarantees with genetics.

Well, I'm 18 and I am almost completely flat. I've heard my older sister, who has Bs, complain about her "small boobs." It makes me sick hearing that because she knows I have NOTHING. We also share a room and have shared it since I was born. However, we definitely don't change in front of each other. I say you should tell your sis that you aren't comfortable seeing her topless because it makes you feel insecure and because you don't think that's appropriate for sisters to do anyway. Since you are 14, you probably have a lot more time to grow, so I wouldn't worry. And just think about this: when you're older, you won't sag as much as your sister will! I hope I helped you out.

Don't stress. Neither of your bodies have fully formed yet. Hers is just forming faster than yours. In time it is likely that you will catch up. In the mean time enjoy not having to wear a bra while you can. Bras sux especially in really hot weather
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