I've never had an orgasm...Me and my boyfriend are worried. Help!?

Question: Me and my boyfriend have been together almost a year, we're in love and are going to get married in a couple years. He's attractive, funny, smart, the whole package. Accepy he hasnt given me an orgasm. I've never gotten one, but I've only been intimate with one other guy in a previous relationship. We've tried different things, foreplay etc. but its not working. I'm getting worried, and he is too, he thinks hes doing something wrong, and its taking a toll on our relationship. Please does anyone have any ideas?

Answers:
check out a book on Kama Sudtra..also if your not too embarrassed, go to a gyno to make sure u don't have a sexual problem

Other Answers:
Oral always works for me! If I can't any other way - that always works.

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ya he needs to stick his tongue up your *** hole while he rubs your clit that should do it

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Lots of women can't orgasm. Make yourself orgasm first then you can tell him how. But you can't hold the guy responsible.

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It might have something to do with your age.Some girls don't have them till there mid twenties.

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lots of girls or um.. females don't get orgasms or maybe they get them later in life in thier sexuall prime. like 20's 30's 40's. some ladies don't get them at all. i only get them when i masterbate and i love my boyfriend very very very much. try oral sex. i've heard if he's good, you'll have better luck.

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The orgasm isn't the end all so don't focus on it. Enjoy the journey and try to relax and try not to think about it.

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simply masturbate at the same time you are having sex. massage that clit while he is inside you. you have gotten one from masturbating alone right??

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