How to develop feelings for my Fiance?

Question:

I tried hard to get out of feelings for my ex(who always abused me and never showed up even upon my requests and always taunted me always insulted me always tried to let me down didn't marry me saying i didn't belong to his caste and I looked a poor village girl and didn't know anyhting.he always complained about my looks and figure too).finally i got engaged to my cousin and inshallah getting married soon.but now the problem is i don't feel bad for this ex inspite of his bad attitude to me.i still have feelings for me.i want to feel the same way for my finance but inspite of my trying hard i can not divert my feelings to my fiance.i still feel the same for my ex.i know though now it is bad for me to think about that idiot and he is an idiot but my idiot heart doesn't understand anything and now i have started feeling a strong pressure and pain on my heart because i am constantly restricting myself from that idiot.Whenever i am alone i i get pleasure through feeling him.

Answers:
When you love someone it is very hard to forget them, but if you are engaged and you don't love them DO NOT STAY WITH THEM! It is wrong to "lead them on". It will only hurt you and them in the long run. And what ever you do don't go back to your ex. It sounds like it would be very dangerous.

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enough time hasnt passed then after ur breakup. perhaps u should take time of from either one of them and start afresh. and instead of searching for ur ex in ur fiance u should try to appreciate him for what he is........

well frist of all you cant have feeling towards you cousin that is sick out your mide jerry springer type stuff. any ways you must forget about your x he is not around or in the picture any more if you want a bright furture with your fiance go to when you frist meet what made you fall in love with him what made you say yes /what make you smile when he comes near once you heart remember that you will fall back in love with him. hoped i help

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