im 25yrs old i dont feel like doing sex though i love my hubby so much.?

Question: i dont feel like doing sex i dont know.me n my hubby we love each other we have 2 kids also .but this changes have just come into me ,i think by doing this i m spoiling my married life.also but i dont know wht should i do for that.he never makes loves when ever he want to do sex he inserts n then finish.this i dont like .but this all i cant tell him cause he is very narrow minded person he will take in a wrong way.pls suggest me .

Answers:
no wonder you don't want sex. if he's not doing anything to make you want it, you're not going to want it. you should see a counselor. he needs to learn how to meet your needs so you can meet his.

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Well, with two kids, I'm sure you're under a ton of stress right now. Stress definitely decreases sex drive. Lack of sleep and taking certain medications also has an effect.

What really does, though, is an inattentive lover. You need to have a chat with your husband. It doesn't sound like he's fulfilling any of your needs, which is a serious problem. Try having a talk at a neutral time, like over lunch, and let him know that you'd like a little more spice in your sex life. You shouldn't have to put up with being treated like a blow-up doll, and if your husband is too narrow minded to realize this, then, well, he sucks.

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It is better to consult your thoughts to a good Family counsellor or psychologist.

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