I had sex for the first time it only hurts. no fun:(?

Question:

no bleading as i heard virgns have at first time.Y.? but i started bleading after one and half hour .for six hours :( .Y?

Answers:
there is no need to go to the doc. it is because you did not see the bleeding before, or you had already tore some of it. did you feel pain after? if the hymen was broken you would feel pain after. but the bleeding is bcos of thta. no need to see the doc. after 4 times of sex you won't have pain

Other Answers:
And your question is? Try oral sex next time.

I understand that this is normal. It should not be painful in the future, if your guy is doing it right. You probably tore something more than usual. Were you pretty tight? I mean you should go to the DOC.

TAKE HEART SWEETY IT ONLY HAPPENS THE FIRST TIME OR TWO. AFTER THAT IT IS JUST PLAIN WONDERFUL.

maybe he put it in the wrong hole lolol

oooo sory to hear tat. ok

next time try a bit of foreplay take it easy your body needs to get in the right frame as well as your mind. as they say though practice makes perrfect. you'll soon be enjoying every moment makesure you communicate with your partner what is comfterbal and what isnt too as that can be a major factor during your first few times. (i make this sound like doing drugs. lol)

ouch

If you use the tampons you may have tore your hymen long ago. And being on your perion you would not have known it. So that explains the not bleeding right away part. The bleeding later may have been due to the fact that it was your first time and your Coohie is just not used to it, there fore it may have swollen a bit and been sore as well.

But when ever you have a question you should go to the doctor. Or at least talk to the nurse at the OB-GYN office.

If you can't go to someone close to you and ask this questions then I would have to think maybe you're not really mature enough for the emotional element of having sex. Maybe you should just let yourself heal up and put it off till later in your life. I also would check with a physican, I know of noone that bled that much after the first time. Its cause ur pus.sy is too tight.. An advice.. Look up on internet how to exercise ur pus.sy to make it flexible..

bleeding is an ancient concept.b'coznowdays girls dont bleed if they have sex4the first time as they r engaged in activities like cycling,swimming etc.as a result of which the outer thin tissue rupters during these activities.

welcome to the real world. from now on things will only get better

Strange that you did not enjoy !! no pain no gain..maybe you need to induldge again to enjoy :-)

Get your bleeding checked.not normal Hey our avatars kinda look alike, how cool is that! :-)

Yeah, it does hurt the first time. I hope you have taken some Tylenol or something by now to ease the pain. If you run a warm bath and soak for about 10-15 mins. then I promise you that you will feel better! It will hurt for about a week when you have sex, but I promise you, it will get better with time okay. :-)

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