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I used to have the same problem. It sucked. Badly. I could really enjoy sex and get 'close' but never make it. over. The most intense feelings I got were from direct stimulation of my clit. I could go nuts. moving all around, never being still and just enjoying that. Which is just what you have to do. My guy. did everything he could do. He talked soothingly to me to keep me calm and relaxed. he rubbed the spot, licked; did everything that is possible to stimulate me. He MADE me be still. I had to learn to let the flow of excitement and the orgasm take me. you'll feel it build up and up and up. and then as it feels like its going to take you. just let out the tension.., After learning how to orgasm at all. I used those techniques during only vaginal stimulation and have been able to make it almost every time.
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normal rub your cl*t while he is pumping and don`t stop untill you climax it`ll work.
if he gives you oral sex will you climax?some women have trouble reaching climax through penetration.try different positions and dont think about it let it happen if its not on your mind it will happen easier. Hey, first of all DONT PANIC!! :)
What you are going through happens to lots of women, actually for most women is difficcult to climax only with penetration and they need direct stimulation of the clitoris while their partners penetrate them so i would suggest to use your hand to stimulate it, try oral sex, and lots of foreplay.
Actually, 15 to 19 minutes might just not be enough time for you to get excited enough, 15 minutes is the minimum time for a woman to get to the climax point, and for most of us it takes much longer, so i would suggest you work with your husband to learn and hold it for a longer time.
This is normal. It's said that 80% of women have a hard time with the big "o" with just intercourse. You need clitoral stimulation until you climax, then go for the intercourse. Show your man how you like it done. This will help you be more relaxed about your sexuality. It is normal. I experienced that too. You are right before the climax.. and then. nothing happens..
I would say it happens because you "force yourself" to climax.
Try to drink one or two glasses of wine before you sleep with your hubby, then you will be really relaxed and won't think about it. And after some "normal" climaxes, you won't have this "forced to climax - thing" again.
At least, this is what helped me.
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