How to get my girlfriend to shower properly without breaking her heart.?

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Me and my girlfriend skip oral sex together because she for some reason hates the idea of a mouth touching any genital, mine or hers doesn't matter. After some persuation I convinced her to do oral on me. well. when it came to my turn to do it on her, I got . sadly disgusted. There was white slime all over her vagina, and white chunky cheese smelly ring around her clitoris. I said to myself. well, can't turn back now, you got yours. and performed oral on her until she told me to start the intercourse. I was so disgusted, I lasted longer than I ever did. I didn't even kiss her, I just straight went to the bathroom and brushed my teeth. So now I am the prisoner of the monster I have created, she likes oral sex and this time I hesitate. But how the hell do I tell her she stinks down there? Is there an easy way to go about this without breaking her heart?

Answers:
buddy not to worry at all the simple thing to do is before u start doing oral sex try to play ice game with take a ice cube and rub it on her clitoras it definately gives her imense pleasure and she got all wet take a cloth and pretend that ur drying her thing and clean her part .
but if you want to get rid of her problem tell her staright that u have notice sm fungle infection in her area (after listing this she will be more caution about her hygine ) and u shuld tell her to clen her part daily with soap and water as it is essential to maintain good hygine

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Try not to put too much soap onto the heart, and use lukewarm water.
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Time for a new girlfriend. it could be thrush but let her know gentlely
and thrush has a smell to it aswell

yeah. go shower with her! Bring her to the pharmacy and look at some medication for that together. Try to do the oral sex only when you are under the shower!

Hello,

Okay..how about you to going tout shopping together and making some suggestions like ooh i love that body wash..its actually good for your skin.

Having a shower is good, but what if you don't live together..it might not even be a hygiene problem .it might be an infection because of tight fitted clothes you know .?

I would no say you should say you stink .but try suggesting some fragrances and stuff or some people i know use a body wash for a body wash and for the private areas some special wash.

that's disgusting. As a woman, I always make sure I'M squeaky clean, especially down there and especially if a partner is going down on me. If she really wants you to eat her, she needs to wash it well. maybe u can say " let me wash mine and you wash yours before we do it" Lots of smelly white slime can be a sign on disease. Tell her to go to the doctor. I'm serious. Sexually active females and adult females should get a pelvic exam every year.

She'll just have to deal with the hurt feelings. Yes and no. Just be gentle with her. Don't tell her she smells bad, point it out from the perspective that you're worried because this lack of hygiene could cause problems if she's not careful. Make it about her and NOT about you is all I can say in the attempt to not offend her. I'll admit that I had a BF tell me this once (I was on an antibiotic for UTI, guess it's a side effect or something) and it bothered me a little, but it didn't break my heart. I know he's only concerned about my well being. Hope that helps. Good luck!

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