What do you think when a woman says they have had an abortion.?
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I think "the person" is a disgusting piece of ****.. how cud u mutilate a poor lil defenseless baby. yes baby at any stage it is a baby.. at like 7 weeks in which is roughly around when people find out. there are fingers toes and baby developing. and having an abortion rips it to pieces. so yes i think you are a piece of **** if you are aborting a baby.. your mom didnt abort you!! I think abortion at any stage and for any reason is unforgiveable !
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I think that woman was, 1) Careless, 2) Selfish.
Careless b/c she didnt use enough procautions and got pregnant.
Selfish b/c instead of carrying the baby for 9 months and giving a chance at a happy life with another couple who desperately want a baby, she decided to end it's life and punish the innocent baby for a mistake she and her partner made!
I think thats her business and none of mine. She has every right to say what happens with her own body. I know someone who had 3 abortions and she was only in her early 20's its sick in my opinion for her to have unprotected sex and when she gets pregnant get an abortion. on the other hand its her decision and i dont think its bad for anyone to decide what they want its their bodies. but in her case she is just sick. she is having alot of female problems and health problems now she cant get pregnant again or she could die she has been told.
its wrong.. but if the women dont wants to have a child it all depends on her will.
well if she had the abortion because of rape or sexual abuse, the i support her 100%. if she was fooling around and didn't protect herself, or get the guy to protect himself, then she's wrong! with all the damn diseases out there, especially hiv, i can't believe how people can jump in the sack at the drop of a hat. Throw the risk of pregnancy on top of that, and it's mindboggling!
sex should be talked about, and engaged in responsibly! Both partners should discuss the "what ifs". It's important!
She had to make a hard decision that impacts her the rest of her life. At no point at time can any man tell her to have one because she is the one going through the process. I know a friend who had also 3. Well she didn't have a choise she was 15,16, 18. An her mom made her do it b/c she was too young to be taking care of a kid an it would have been a embarrassment to the family never the less her dad would have kiled her
well I must admit I had an abortion when I was like 18 years old ! I wish I would have taken the time to think it over but I was young and already had two kids and my boyfriends mom talked about me so bad I just thought it was the right thing to do! Funny how what people think affects our lives,Well I'm 36 now and I am blessed to have five children ages 19,18,16,15,and 13 and I wish I could have had my child instead of aborting him! I think about him often Sometimes in life we make a decision on the spur of the moment,Not knowing that its a decision that will affect us the rest of our lives!! I know I have to face God on judgment day and I pray that He will forgive me for being young dumb and stupid!!
I think it only ok to have an abortion when the case is rape or incest other than that you play you pay.There are plenty of good people who cannot have children who would love to adopt a new baby.
I wouldn't think anything. I don't expect people to accept what I do and I'm not expected to accept what they do. There are many different circumstances (rape, disease etc) that I think would be more than acceptable reasons for it. However, if it's being used as a form of "birth control", then I think shes got issues. But I don't think that anyone has the right to judge a woman based upon what she does to HER OWN BODY. It must have been for a good reason. She was killing a human. It is sad to see people do that. i would rather have the baby then give it to someone. Poor baby!
I think everyone is too sensitive aboout abortions and act like it's such a big deal. If you are using an abortion for a type of birth control like had more than one I dont think thats right. Every one should have a right to one , I think it is fine as long as its before 2months, and you don't make it a habit every women should be allowed atleast one after that you are just irresponsible. Unless it was due to rape. I had one and I am not afraid to say it, I chose to have one cause I thought it was the best choice why bring a child in your life if you can bairly afford to feed youself, and suffer and not be able to give your kid everything they need. I wasn't ready in my life i was only 20 and saw all my other friends with kids and I saw how they struggled and some even in a way regreted having them. The government should have no choice in it and I hope don't ban it. Then people will do it illegally and it will be worse.
Considering that more than 1 in 3 women in the U.S. have had abortions, I would think she was being honest.
Considering that women who admit to making this choice are often shamed, scolded, and harrassed by the rest of us, I would think she was being brave to tell me.
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