How can I learn to accept the fact that I will never have the "perfect" body?
Question:
In a span of two years I went through a horrible divorce, lost 100 pounds, met a wonderful man, had a baby boy, and lost 35 more pounds. These are all great things except now because of the weight loss I am stuck with areas that are flabby due to excess skin. Financially plastic surgery is out of the question. My self esteem has not always been top notch and now its even worse. I struggle with low confidence almost on a daily basis and it interferes with my personal life as well because my sexual confidence is really lacking. I do toning excercises but have little results, please help!
Answers:
good job, you've taken the first step! keep talking about it, talk to your husband about it. eventually you will come to terms with it.
P.S. remember that everyone tends to judge themselves more harshly than others judge them.. in other words you see yourself worse than the rest of the world sees you, so relax
Love what you got. Everyone has things that they don't like about there body. I am sure they are things that others hardly notice. No sense worry about what you cannot change. Love yourself!
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