Why am I being so mean!?


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I'm being so horrible to my boyfriend, he's so forgiving - I came off my period about two days ago.but he talked to his sister this morning so didn't pick up the phone when I was calling - I went mad, I was so upset! Those who read my question about his sister will know why (we don't get on) But I get so upset when he talks to her or even mentions her.he's going to talk things through with her but I can't carry on behaving like this. It's horrible! And he's being so lovely! I created two arguments by 11:30am this morning already.then I apologised yet again. What can I do to stop it!? I'm exhausted too (not excusing it but could be a reason??)

Answers:
Been there, seen it and done the same too, try this it really helps, 7 days before your period is due eat 2 ryvita 3 times a day or try rice cakes 2, 3 times a day, it does take a few month to kick in but it really does help the PMT or PMS and you get less narky, forget the sister she is doing it to cause trouble and your poor boyfriend is stuck in the middle of it, sit him down and explain how you feel but don't disrespect his sister too much as it is something of a bug bear for men to hear he has a manipulative sister, he will find out that in good time and need you as his rock even more than he does now, he seems a good guy by listening to how you feel and your a good person by not bottling it all up, unfortunately you can't pick your family but you can your friends and he sounds like not only your best friend but a great guy, he loves you so he understands just like you will him when he has ruff patches, don't beat yourself up over it that makes it worse.

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omg that sounds familiar, so you're not alone there, I just used to bugger off till she'd calmed down a bit, I didn't hate her for it or anything like that but it did get quite irritating sometimes.
just from a guy's p.o.v

well.the period thing does play a giant factor.you may just be going the horomonal stage of it still.it takes awhile for it to go away.Also I think it would be good to try to get along with your boyfriends sister. Ok honey, the real problem is not that you're mean but that you are miserable. The reason for this is undoubtedly hormonal.
You are almost certainly deficient in omega 3 oils. Taking these as a supplement will restore your hormonal balance and make you feel a ton better - honest!!
Go to Boots and ask them for omega 3 oil capsules. They are not expensive, and Boots usually do a 2 for 1 offer or something. Tell your boyfriend what you are doing and he will love you just for trying!!


your period..and your horomones act up and they play tricks on your body and they're telling you to do this stuff CHILL at least you know your doing it , good job hes forgiving mine would have gone nuts at me !
try chill out or you will get him down and make him feel bad for you and his sister , give him space with his family .


Welcome to my world.
I am evil when i am tired, hungry and run down.
So eat well, sleep well and take up kick boxing so you can kick his sisters *** lol that will make you feel much better


P.M.S. Try Starflower oil, it's stronger and better than evening primrose it is said to help balance out you hormones. My ex sister in law suggested this 6 months ago and i can say I'm in a more positive mood before and after monthly's. you'll need to find the strongest one on the market. I'd recommend the one i am taking - 1000mg and follow the instructions and don't take more than recommended cuz u could end up in hospital with some sort of overdose vitamin poisoning.

Hope that helps babe




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