what can u put to prevent first time sex from hurting so much?
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Foreplay, relaxation and a guy who is gentle when it comes to dealing with a virgin will help some. But there might still be some pain. Its just natural, like pain with childbirth is natural.
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Nothing that I've every heard of.
trust, lube, condom
abstinence would be the only way to prevent the pain in my opinion
foreplay. also if you are asking this maybe you need to wait untill you arn't worried about that.
it dosn't hurt everyone either. make sure you want to do it. because it will hurt more if you are nervous or not into it or anxious
Lube really really really helps.Put it on the guy and on around your opening. Don't be shy using it. :)
go really slow us a good lube..like a silicon lube. relax and one othr trick.use your finger to gently "massage" the area around the opening to your vagina for about 20 minutes it's a child birth tech. that makes the skin a little more elastic-ie but it's only temporary.it should help
I find it hilarious when people answer sex questions with "abstinence". They aren't answering the question at all. If they wanted to learn about abstinence they wouldn't be asking about sex.
As other people have answered: you need to trust the person..be relaxed, lubricant and tons of foreplay. It'll probably hurt, but if your partner knows what he/she is doing then they will probably use fingers and such before the actual penis/larger object.
lubracte his dick, because iknow it hurts me more when its dry
Foreplay. foreplay. foreplay. if you're using a lube use KY or a water based lubricant since petroleum lubes degrade condoms. gentle erotic foreplay and a pre-lubed condom may be all you need. if you're comfortable with him, and you guys spend some time, get excited and there is ample forplay it shouldn't hurt.
Good luck!
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