Get it done?

Question: Alright, this is somethin thats been buggin me, for some reason I cant get my girlfriend to climax. Its not my **** size(over average), and its not that I'm just bad at it. We've talked about it and she says shes there every time but just cant get over that last obstacle to get there completely. And I know shes not lying because you cant quiver like that on cue. Im not some kind of egotistic macho guy that cant admit to failure, its just that she's there but she cant get there all the way entirely and ya know I feel kinda guilty when I can get there but shes kinda left in the dust. No dildos or any kinda toy device is gonna be used. Im in a stick, help me out her aye. Thanks

Answers:
several possibilities...1. not all women do (and this could be psychological, not able to let go of control), 2. not proper stimulation for her (different people need stimulation in different areas), 3. her body is out of shape.

I've been reading about the benefits of Kegel exercises, and when ladies have a loose Kegel muscle, it can lead to an untoned vagina, which deminishes pleasure. I recommend she try Kegels for a while and see if that helps in any way.

It does sound like, if she's getting to "quivering" but still hitting an obstacle, then maybe it's she's just not letting herself "go" to enjoy it. Sounds like she needs to slow down and get more relaxed and stop focusing on "getting in there".

Other Answers:
Not every woman does.

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Maybe you don't last long enough? Is she sure that she knows what an orgasm is? Are you doing enough foreplay? What about your tongue? Sometimes you just have to take your time and work with these things...

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she may need some clitoral stimulation. try a position that has close contact with it. woman on top will surely hit that spot. make sure you do lots of foreplay. Even try oral

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