very nervous and need to know everything about sex?
Question:
I am still a virgin and I am planning on having sex soon.
From what my friends have told me, they thought it was painful (the first time)
I would appreciate it if you could tell me everything about it.
The foreplay (what you and your partner did)
the actual "thing" (what it felt like)
the positions (what you did, and what you like and is most comfortable; which is the most comfortable & enjoyable?)
and this is something ive always wondered..
when you are done with your sexual intercourse, how does the guy take his peni$ out. Does he just take it out?
I feel very akward asking, but please answer with full detail.
Thank you so much!
Answers:
firstly, if you are young and still a virgin, my advice to you would be to wait. (and i wouldn't have listened to that advice when i was younger either)
secondly, the book "the joy of sex" is an classic. and it covers everything.
thirdly, the first time isn't all that great. the good news is it only gets better from there. the more experience you have, the better it is.
lastly, when you are done having intercourse, what happens will vary from partner to partner. some couples like to stay connected for a while afterwards. remember that sex is an immense amount of physical exertion for a guy (yes, more than for us gals) and he will probably need to withdraw and rest immediately after ejaculating.
Other Answers:
It will just happen.you don't nned to plan it or have any massive amounts of information.just know that once you cross that line you can never go back.so think about whether or not you are truly ready and if the person you are going to give yourself to is the one.
This is a very personal thing.
You should relax if your ready for sex and hopefully your with the person you love and that your old enough, then your partner and you should not have any problems.
A good lover can make the difference in the first time.Good luck. i didnt enjoy the first time, all i felt was pain.
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