I am f32 with two kids.My husband wants to have oral which I find disgusting. Is it right to have oral?

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what do find so disturbing about oral? . wash him up really good, and have fun with it. if you are still grossed out. you could try flavored condoms.there is nothing wrong with it. it is just another way to express you love for each other.

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of course it is

Heck yes. It feels so good.

its not 'right' or 'wrong' as it is something personal, some women like doing it others do not.

definitely!

if you dont feel comfortable doing it then tell your husban that there are other things besides oral that you would do.

you are married, but probably not for long. when you married, it's perfectly fine to enjoy each other in whatever way pleases you. good luck with that

It is obvious that you have never been devoured by a warm mouth in that area. I would say you may want to rethink your position before your bio read f32 w two kids and divorced. I don't mean to be harsh but most men enjoy that and he may look elsewhere for that attention.

it is very right and a wonderful, very personal way to connect and express yourselves! Just lay back and enjoy.it's all good! If it still bothers you, do him at the same time.it'd be a 'lil distraction

you didn't state in your question if you find it disgusting to give or recieve but if you feel the way you do you need to tell him how you feel and he needs to respect your wishes

I never liked it either, but it happened once in a while just to please my husband--it does nothing for me.

It is only right if you feel that it is right for you. Talk to your husband and tell him of your feelings.

oh well honey you are setting your self up for a cheating husband, trust me all men love getting the head blown so why are you acting crazy. 2 kids in an you have to ask the question you should know better keep him happy bring out the karma sutra and learn all you need to know about keeping your man happy remember there will always be a women willing to help him out so keep your man and give up the blowjobs

A women will do just about anything to satisfy her man. Just try it and your man will love you even more.

It is medically not wrong if,
Both sex partners follow strict genital hygeine.
And your partner should not have any STDs
And he should use condoms if he hasnt yet undergone an ELISA
(AIDS)test

if all the above parameters are good then no problem having oral sex IF YOU LIKE IT.

You don't know what you're missing - do it and just go with it!! Have fun.

I, personally, like to do it. I think you should try it at least once. But everyone is different, if you're not comfortable in doing it, then don't do it. Your husband should be your best friend, and he should understand if you choose not to. There are other ways in satisfying your husband.
Also, a side note.if your husband leaves you cause he wasn't getting any oral, well then good riddance. Cause sex isn't everything in a relationship, you have to be each others friend, and a source of support for one another in times of need. If he's willing to throw a relationship away cause he ain't getting mouth action.well then he's neither a friend or a source of support (just a note to those above who say if she doesn't she'll be getting a divorce!)

Not only is it right, IT'S YOUR DUTY to please him sexually just like it's his duty to provide for you financially!

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