sex problems?

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ok so im 14 and i slept with a guy who is 18. now everybody i know knows about it and thinks im a ****. i didnt have sex. well im pretty sure i didnt i dont remember. just read my other questions and you will understand. anyways so now everybody thinks i had sex and nobody in my age group wants to go out with me because they think since they are still a virgin that i will make fun of them. but the thing is i dont think i had sex. i think i was druged or somthing because i dont remember anything. the guy i slept with me is avoiding me like a plaige and i dont know why. what should i do? will i be a single **** who slept with an 18 year old forever. guys would you sleep with a girl like me? or am i worthless? you wontt get it unless you read my other questions. and answer them if you wan. help me i dont want to be remembered like this and i have to be in school with these ppl for 4 more years. help me!

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no sweetheart you are not worthless ,all you did was sleep with a guy and that is not enough to make you a ****,you have to sleep with lots of guys before you are a ****.dont worry what others say as long as you know you didnt do anything wrong.well babe i think iam a little too old to sleep with a 14 year old girl,but iam old enough to know you are not a **** or you wouldnt be as worried as you are,so hold your head up high and dont worry what others think.good luck dear.

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well the first thing you need to do is stop hanging around people who are 4 years older than you. they're just going to take advantage of you since you're younger just like that guy did. and if you're friends dont want to hang out with you all bc of that, then they're not your real friends. never worry about whether a guy will sleep with you or not bc that doesnt determine if you're worthless or not. you're not worthless even tho this is a really bad mistake. even though you dont remember, you shouldnt hang around with people that would do something like that to you. talk to your friends, make sure you're all on the same page with the issue. just do things that people your age should be doing. which is not hanging out with 18-yr olds and putting yourself in a situation that may give you trouble like this did. just surround yourself with better people. hanging out with older people and doing things they do doesnt make you any cooler. it's actually pretty dumb. just try to move on from it and talk to your friends and everyone will forget it soon. just do normal things 14-yr olds do. like go to movies and such.

If you really dont remember its not your fault at all. also a doctor can tell you for sure if you are still a virgin by checking to see if your hymen is still intact. Just tell the doctor you think you may have been date raped. high school is tough, try not to let the other kids get to you kids can be cruel. Dont worry losing your virginity isnt the end of the world but i do recomend staying out of bed till youre older I started having sex at 14 and ended up with really low self esteem as a result. plus im sure you know the dangers. Good luck. you sound like a nice girl Im sure your life will turn out fine if you just remember that you are a special person and it dosnt matter what other people say. My dear Virgin. You have no problems,just as ordinary as other girls are. The thing is that you opened up your mind, and in the face of society you yourself portray/ believe that you are a ****. Dear girl,.you are too young and immature to talk about all these things. Just concentrate on your primary activities, which i believe, should be your studies. Then be with your family, talk to your parents,your good friends, your siblings.Involve more with them.

My dear..the feeling that you have right now is just a scare that arose because you made a mistake which is too immature for your age. That is a MISTAKE and avoid such in the future. As someone had earlier written, guys dont honestly like girls who want to impress them by doing HOT things. You may end up in wrong hands. But allguys definitely are not like that. So do justice to your responsibilities for the hour.that is your education.and once when you become mature, thinkof other things.Then your true lover will come to you, rather than you searching for him.

All the best, and please dont panic. Be confident of yourself.

Thanx

Please put your safety first never put yourself in vulnerable positions in which you can or possibly be drugged. u r so young and your 1st should be memorable too say the least. Also if everybody knows why don't you. Sounds kinda of funny too me. it may be just peer pressure.

Please turn things around for your self and make your first focal point to be you and how you are perceived and what it takes to get the perception you need. First impression are the best impression.

get a dna test or get over ittheres no proving

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