another anal question..lit.
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There shouldnt be real pain if you two are working together and taking it slow. Try different positions, spoon up in front of him and you push onto him until he is in.. take it slow, and use lots of lube. or try beinding over the arm of the couch or onto the bed or ven try it with you on top and your back to him. eventually you will find a way to make it comfortable for you both.. then decide if you enjoy it or not.
It iwll be tight and uncomfortable at first,,,,, but you will get the hang of it if its something you want to try. but you have to want it too, dont do it just for him!
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If you are not comfortable with it, tell him to forget it. Why should you have to suffer the pain.
You shouldnt feel pressured to do anything!
Yeah okay, he looks a bit dissappointed when you bring it to a stop, but look what you're putting yourself through to please him! Its so much easier for him to hold back than it is for you to put yourself through that uncomfortableness *whatever* lol
Why to deal with the pain .. He should care about you bcoz he loves you and keep away from what causes pains for you .. Its not wrong that you dont do it because its against the right way to have sex in my opinion .. I feel it against the nature of the body !! Anal isn’t something you can do it over night & enjoy it. It needs lot of lube & lot of time. Ask him not to shove it in. it takes lot of time to make it work. Ask him to go little by little everyday & make sure u tell him when it hurts. Eventually u will get to it & u will have fun.
Rome wasn’t built in a day
Anal sex can actually be bad for you. Every once in a while won't hurt but if you do it a lot then your anus will stretch out and cause a lot of problems down the road when using the bathroom. Plus it is dirty and you or him can get infected more easily. Whatever you do don't have anal sex then regular sex after wards. You definitely shouldn't feel bad for not wanting to do it. And if he really loves you then he should understand that it hurts you. Try and lay the guilt trip on him, asking why would you want me in pain like that, why are you only thinking of yourself? If it hurts, and you don't want to, it's your body and you don't have to. I'm sure if it was that painful for him, he would back out as well!!
It is not wrong that you don't want to do it. It can be very painful at first and if you are not completely comfortable doing it then don't. IT IS YOUR BODY! Don't feel bad about it and don't let your boyfriend pressure you into doing things that you don't want to do. He'll get over it. And if he doesn't then tell him to hit the road.
On the other hand if you really want to keep trying it then I can tell you that once you get past a certain point then it doesn't hurt as much. This is a very personal act and you should only try it with someone you completely trust. It will never be completely pain-free however. Your boyfriend has to remember exactly which part of your body this is.. ask him if he would want something like that put in his a**.
Well, you have to be very aroused before you stick something up there. Masturbate while he's sticking it in or you might not get it it. It can be very painful if you aren't ready. Stop torturing yourself. Don't you think a question like this is better suited to an adult forum and not on here where young people come?
If he loves you, he will stop when you tell him to.
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