why do i feel like this?

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why do i try my best to look 'not so good'? theres recently been a rape in our area and im scared but does it really mean i have to tryso hard to look my worst all the time. i hate being like this. its stupid. any ideas or comments welcome thanx

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SWEETIE BECAUSE U DONT WANT THE NASTY IGNORANT GUY TO SNATCH U BUT THE TRUTH IS UGLY OR CUTE IF THEY ARE GONNA SNATCH WOMEN UP U HAVE TO BE CAUSTION NO MATTER WHAT U NEED TO GET SOME MACE OR KEEP A KNIFE OR SOME SHARP OBJECT W/U TO FEEL SAFE AND TRUST ME I LIVE IN THE HOOD AND ALL THIS STUFF COME IIN HANDY AND PRAY TO GOD THAT NO ONE HURTS U ..BE SAFE U CANT LOCK YOUR SELF DOWN BECAUSE WE HAVE IGNORANT PEOPLE IN THE WORLD!

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Honey.It's time to move!

gurl.you don't need to look that way.just relax.nothing is gonna happen.unless u r really attractive. The thing is it doesn't matter if you are in a beautiful expensive outfit, a "clubbing" type outfit, workout clothes, or your pajamas if this person is going to attack they do not care what you are wearing they are just going to attack.
Take precautions-carry mace, be aware of your surroundings, do not go out alone after dark, make sure your loved ones know where you are when you do go out, carry a cell phone, do not do things that might distract you from being aware of danger, know self defense, etc.
However nothing is going to protect you 100% and dressing down is definitely not going to help you (sorry) All that it is probably doing is making you feel worse about yourself. Studies have shown that women who dress nicer feel better about themselves and are more confident.
Look into moving to a different area. But in the meantime just take precautions.
I know it is scary but I can not emphasize enough you just have to do things to keep yourself safe and no matter how you dress it is not going to stop these sickos! Common sense. Yes dress down if it makes you feel safe?, but no need to be at your worst 24-7.

Be careful where you go, keep a watchful eye.and try not being alone or out after dark alone. Get some pepper spray, and know how to use it,.also a cell phone is a handy item if you need help.a whistle helps! Doesn't mean you have to live your life in paranoia, just be cautious, and careful.

T :)

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