how can I get an orgasm?
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you are actually trying too hard! you need to be in a great state of relaxation
bring a focus back onto your foreplay and forget about penetration - and by foreplay I mean foreplay - relaxing baths with sensual massage - lots of touching, kissing, romance
just playing with each others bodies with no thought of intercourse
experiment a lot with cl*t stimualtion in different ways and forms - feeling what gives pleasure and what doesnt - teach your husband this . over time you will both be more relaxed and things will happen
the harder you try the more it will elude you - so forget about and enjoy some sensuality
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call me over there ill fix u up j/k seriously maybe u should try something new and more exciting
get oen of those kama sutra books or something, make sur ehe doesnt think its him or he wont perform good anyway, but if you say lets try new things and get freaky, he might be into some of them, and new moves will tingle your jollies It's probably mental. You might consider going to speak to a specialized sex counselor/therapist.
Try and give you self an orgasm by masturbation, then tell him exactly what you did to climax.
Have him put two or three fingers inside you and try to touch your g spot while rubbing your clit with his thumb, My girl gushes when I do this. Hope it helps, Also dont try too hard, just relax and enjoy the feeling.
oral sex most women only get an orgasam that way
talk to your lover, work with him/her..find out what you both need ..try have sex in other place ..this with fire up your sex life
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