My sister and fingering herself?

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My sister is 12 and i caught her in the act of "fingering herself".She begged me to not tell mom and of course my sister and i are really close and i would never tell it is just, i think she is way to young.What should i do and is this normal?

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I dont understand why some people are saying this is wrong, its not abnormal too explore you'r body, even at 12 years old, and to suggest she may have been touched before is ludicrous! its just making problems out of a totally natural experience, young girls do it...and i bet everyone reading this probably had experimented with their bodies by this age.

girl its absouletley natural, nothing to worry about, all girls (and boys) do it, even though the may be embarassed about admiting it, you just happened to unfortunately have caught her in the act.

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its normal buddy,shes hit puberty.. are you from the bible belt or something?

Ooh yuck, this is normal but sorry you had to see that. Just tell her to wash her hands.

Be happy, at least she's not out with somebody. She's around that right age that young girls start exploring their bodies. Nothing to worry about. Just respect her privacy.

I think that's pretty normal. She probably started since she was 10 but you did not catch her then.

did you tell on yourself your first time?

It's Quite Normal,
Next Time She Should Maybe Do It Somewhere Better.

It's normal, some mature earlier.

Sounds like shes just exploring her body. This is very normal for a girl her age. Just continue to stay close to her. She may need your advice someday.

it's normal.. let it go.. forget you saw it..

it is quite normal and you shouldn't do a thing.
she isn't too young to learn about herself,,it is her body.

well she's in puberty and obviously had sex education dnt worry she's just exploring and as least she's not sleeping around cause she's too young for that. dnt do anything

She is a young girl going through puberty. Everyone gets sexual urges. If you caught her masturbating, just know that is perfectly healthy, and just about everyone masturbates every once in a while. Don't worry about her, and just remember, its much better for her to masturbate than to go out and have sexual intercourse with some guy she barely knows.

its normal with children. i don't know if it is still normal with 12 y/o. maybe that is her way of relieving her stress?
you should ask her to stop. but do not force her because she can easily do that in private places and there is nothing you can do about it.

Completely normal my friend. Respect her wishes by not telling anyone. Girls bodies mature before guys do :) Don't worry bout it. All normal.

she evidently isn't way too young to be exploring her body if she is doing it.
However, I think I would ask her if anyone has inappropriately touched her in her past.
that you and she can trust each other on this level is a good thing.
You will know when sharing with mom is necessary or not.

This is very normal all children explore their body. Don't tell it's only her business, you would want her to forget if she caught you.

Be quiet about this an never rat her out to anyone, especially your mom.

No, she's not too young to do that, by the way.

totally normal. some g.i.r.l.s go through puberty way faster than others and this is around the age were u start to get s.e.x.ually excited or curious.don't worry about it. and definatlyDon't tell unless u get her ok.

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