sex issues?
Question:
I'm 22, have a boyfriend of 3 years and our sex life is pretty much non existant. We probably make love 3 times a month at best. It's not him. It's me. I never want to do it. I'm NEVER in the mood. And sometimes I don't even want to be in the mood. At first he would pressure me, now he just thinks there's something wrong with him, which there's not. I'm just not into it anymore. I feel like a switch has been turned off inside of me. At the beginning of our relationship our sex life was great. Now I'm afraid I'll never want to be intimate again. What's up with me? Has this ever happend to anyone else? I'm worried for our relationship. What do I do?
Answers:
(taking big breath) -- OK, I'm neither a psychologist or social worker AND I'm a guy. Having said that, I am wondering if there is some issue you have but perhaps are not aware of, or an issue which you feel is too big or complicated to deal with. You state that it's NOT the guy it's you, so what happened when you first lost interest in sex or was it gradual? Have things changed socially, or has there been any changes physically? Have you lost or gained weight? Headaches? Nausea? There are many things to take a long look at while trying to understand what is going on in this area of your life. I would think about seeing someone and I do NOT intend to offend. There's nothing wrong with seeing an MD or PhD about this. And don't worry about it if you are able to not worry. Stress can drive any sex drive down the drain quickly. I know myself! Hope you figure this out. I wish I could heal you, but I'm just a "person off the street" with a little common sense. I'm only answering your question the best way I know how. Good luck.
Yea, let me know what the best answer is, cuz I'm curious myself
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