Its not fair....?

Question:

I hate being a girl at this time.... Why the hell do we have ot go thru periods? Becides for the fact that its for child baring and everything.... I absolutly hate it.... I once found out that it can last anyware between 30 and 40 years. Thats way to fu*king long.... I just want it to go away.... I dont plan on having children, he*l I dont even like being in the same room as one.... If theres anyway to just make it stop I would like to know... Just for the record im 16.....

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i used to hate it too when i was a bit younger, but now i'm fine with it, heck, i want it to come! cuz now i have problems with my menstrual cycle, and it hasn't come for six months now. and im afraid there's something really wrong. so im caught in this dilemma to go to the gyn or not go because my cousin had her's once and it didn't come for a year, and then, after that, everything was normal. at least you know there's nothing wrong with yours. you'll get used to it, don't worry. and someday, maybe you'll change your mind about wanting kids, because i used to hate the period, and hate this and that about what girls have to go through just to have kids. but now, since there's no SAFE way to stop you from having your period, why not just get through with it? its actually not that bad, because if you look at it a certain way, all of this is actually preparing for you to bring another life into the world, so isn't that supposed to be a good thing? you'll get used to it, and trust me, most girls REALLY change their mind. because now, i'm actually afraid maybe my system's so messed up, it might affect my ability to have children in the future. -_-. good luck. and look at it the bright side. your mother had to go through the same that you are going through, just to have you, its almost kind of a blessing. =) let time do the work.

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Looks like you hated spelling class, too!

Yeah, some days it's just plain aggravating. Hang in there though, if you're only 16 you very well might change your mind about having children.

You will learn that nothing in life is fair, you just have to learn to deal with it. Appreciate your body and take care of it. When you get older you have much bigger things to worry about and you learn to deal with your period, the older you get the less annoying it will be to you. It is something you can't change so why fret over it?

have sex

that's just live girl it so unfear...but we have to live with it...

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