Ladies, is it frustrating if your man can't make you climax?
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Ok, this may sound crazy but it's the truth. Erase most of the stuff the other ppl told u. Now one question? Do u masturbate often with yourself.? well the reason i say this is b/c u sound a little selfish. ( like i use to sound) now hear me out. Usually when ppl masturbate it's a selfish attitude,and it's always about me, me me!! It's the truth i've been there. i would alway masturbate , and then get an attitude when sex didn't go my way. sex is not just for ORGASM it's to be close to one another ( actually reproduce). no man had ever made me orgasm, untill after my husband, and it still took time. Stop masturbating forever, b/c it's direct stimulation, totally different from intercourse w/ a man. so get your body equipt for regular sex. u have to teach a man how to love u, and love each other. U wont have a orgasm everytime, that should be okay, 80% of women can't have an orgasm sexually. But It is better to be on top, learn ur body and dont focus on orgasm during sex, just enjoy the feel. start off really slow, and u and him try with each other, don't be embarassed to tell him how u feell , every women had to be loved in different ways, one from the next, and if he comes early make him finger u the rest of the way. It's not worth cheating if he treats u right. He just dont know how to love u right yet. Sex and Orgasm is not the magic cure for u'r lifes problems so dont listen to that Bull ish they talking.( there is oral sex too!!)
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in all honesty, i prefer not to climax. i multi orgasm way too often. and if my man wants me to do any of the bumping and grinding, i need to conserve my energy for our long sessions.
but i also know he is capable which is good to have, not to mention i have no problem doing it myself.
so to answer your questions, no its not frustrating at all, but you should learn her body better so it is at least an option for her/you!
You need to improve your techniques. Bring some toys into the bedroom . . I have found that if I use a nine iron in my old ladies back door while I am in her front door . . she goes off nicely.
SEX IS THE MIN OF 50% IF NOT MORE IN A RELATIONSHIP. GET ANOTHER MAN. Seriously it will lead to cheating.
Whats a beautiful woman like you crying for on the island of love? if i was your man I would make love to you constantly.
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if it atleast feels good the whole way through it then i am fine, but if he gives up, then i get up grab my dildo and go to the bathroom.
other than that tell her to get on top, or you move aroung a little more. BEND HER OVER!
Very frustrating! Be his teacher and guide. If you know your body and what works best for you.show/tell him. If you don't know what gives you the best pleasure, suggest to your hubby that you both explore and find out! Toys are always great if neither of you is against it. Make it fun and don't play the "blame" game. That only causes stress and that doesn't improve orgasm. Most mature men enjoy seeing their partner orgasm and will work hard (no pun intended. Well, maybe!) to make it happen. Just a little stat for women that think there is something wrong with them when they don't orgasm.Only 1 out of 4 women orgasm with just intercourse! HA HA HA HA HA when I was18 to 25 I had this beautiful and very sexy woman, she made me feel soooo bad, she squealed and cried out for 15 minutes then I MelTed!! oops! sorry dear! Sometimes 30 mins max. I felt soo bad.
Then I got this other woman, and we went on for nights, seriously from 11pm till dawn and more quite often. This when I was 10 years older too!
So, I am not sure what happened here,LOL. truth is I felt soooo goood :-)
However a word of advice to your man. he MUST NOT see HIS climax like the end of it. Nope.
I know it isn't an easy concept for a man to grasp but the idea is to go on WITHOUT having this thing in your head that in the end you (man ) get your climax. You simply don't. After a while the body learns that that way NEVER leads to a climax of his and it all settles down to hours and hours of natural fun, period.
In the end you (man) go to sleep without a climax and it's ok.
But you (girl) must be good at doing your bit when it is his turn, this can be on a different night all together, where you get nothing yourself. hint hint That's it. explained the Italian trick! ha ha ha, I should write a book. :-) lots of woman CANT from intercourse. just try different things/positions or do what you know works (like the forplay or whatever)
get some toys. or have him give your oral
one thing you can try, and my lesbian friends told me this, so you know it HAS to be good :) lay on your tummy and have him rub his thumb about 2 inches or so up on the front side of your vagina (he should feel a little bump that will slowly feel harder as he rubs more) - for clarifaction, on the side of your vagina that is towards the bed.
have him keep rubbing and rub a little harder when the bumb feels harder. you may feel like you need to pee, but dont worry, you dont. and if you're worried, just go to the bathroom and come back and you're see you still get that feeling. but n-e-who, just keep rubbing. you're orgasm HARD eventually. i swear. i "accidently" left the website my friend had sent me up on his labtop and lets just say he was holding me down by the end cause i was thrashing so hard he didnt WANT me to stop. lol. it was fun
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