How can u make ur first time not hurt as much?
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I'm concerned you may be too young and that's why your organ is giving you so much trouble. Here's what I think..
Your first time is special. It's sacred, and it should be with someone who values you. .
Someone who REALLY loves you and cherishes you beyond words.
Someone who loves you beyond words is always patient and understanding and therefore, willing to wait, if you're not ready.
Someone who loves you beyond words will let you enjoy your childhood, because he understands you literally have the rest of your life to be an adult.
Someone who loves you beyond words really understands the effect that physical intimacy has on a girl's body, psyche and spirit and how it can change her. He would never force you to do something you're not TRULY ready for physically or otherwise.
Are you sure he's that person? Are you sure you're ready?
I lost my virginity too young. It wasn't special and I regret that.
I know now that it wasn't because I didn't listen to my body. I wasn't ready physically or emotionally. Sex is a huge step. You're literally bringing someone into your body. That person shouldn't just be someone who You THINK loves you, but some you KNOW loves you. Believe me, it will only feel right when you're ready.
Listen to your body. There's no shame in waiting or protecting yourself. Give it a chance to grow some more.
It's your vessel. It's all you have. You're first responsiility is to it. Not your boyfriend. And if he's the right boyfriend, he'll get that.
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have a drink & you will relax
with time it will hurt less. maybe excercise more damn..
wow..
Whoa.
man i knew the internet was a crazy place.
do not lose your virginity your so young If you are athletic you are cool. Stretch. Use the same massaging techniques as in Lamas class. make sure he doesnt just DIVE in. . Your hymn must be broken for him to enter the vaginal canal so massage the hymn or strecth and break the hymn before hand. If you dont he will then OUCH a bloody mess. I gently use two fingers to break the hymn
use lubricant..also relax.
dont even try to enjoy it, bc u wont for a while. practice makes perfect.
Use lots of lube (KY) and make sure that you have enough foreplay and he goes slow.that way it wont hurt as bad and it slowly stretches out. It takes quite a few times before its somewhat enjoyable. Hope you considered the consequences and keep it safe! If it really was your first time you would be tight. Maybe he popped out because he is too small. To keep it from hurting so much, have him use lube and engage in a lot of foreplay so you are really wet. It should not hurt then.
That's normal. Try to relax and don't just jump into it. Add a little forplay to get yourself into it. Get some lube to help make things more comfortable. The best ones are silicone lubes, it silky, doesn't dry out and not sticky like most other lubes but they are more expensive and I think their mainly in adult shops.
Try having him finger you and loosen you up a little before actually engaging in sex next time. Lube the entrance before admitting the visitor.
Don't loose your virginity. You are too young. Save it while you can.
First, use a lubricated condom! That will help. Also, have him finger you, working up to two and three fingers, let him rub your walls and stretch you out a bit.then just let him ease inside you. Relax, and there is less chance you will force him to pop out. ENJOY IT!! It only gets better after the first time.
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try the ky warming liquid Use lots of lubrication (u can find it in any grocery store near the pads/tampons) and lots of foreplay. Take it slow.
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