so no one had answered this yet so i will waste some more points on it.?
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she basically has been starved for attention, her ex sat around and looked at porn all day, and instead of having sex with the beautiful wife he had he would just jerk off to porn on the net. so she got a divorce and then moved away. she is now having fun meeting new guys and having sex with maybe one or two. I am enjoying my freedom! in her words she wants to know But when do I ( my friend)cross the line between enjoying fredom to being a total Sl**
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is this about you or your friend? there is no line. when you feel like you have gone too far then that is your personaly line. everyones different. also try making it shorter next time.
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I don't see anything wrong with somewhat casual sex. Maybe she can find on person that she can have sex with and not have to sleep around. Kind of a friends with benefits kind of situation. Nothing serious. But she does need to make sure she protects herself. There are too many things out there and you can't depend on the other to be prepared so you need to be.
That was sort of confusing..I don't necessarily think she's a s***. I just think that she has been suppressed from having sex from so long that she is glade she is getting it now and is having sex with more than one guy to see the variety out there. Not always a bad thing. Only bad if she sleep with alot of guys, against her self worth, doing things that only put down women. Having sex with guys that are using her for sex.
when she sleeps with men without a commited relationship. which she already has so make sure she doesnt make herrself look easy to get because men will take advantage of her. keep her in line because she is devorced and usually after a devoce women do not know what they want. keep an eye on her and make sure she is dating decent men.
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Well if you are divorced then have fun.
Ithink that if your friend is still starving for attention, she needs to try and find the right person to give it to her. She doesn't have to enjoy everyone out there to realize her freedom. If she wants to enjoy her freedom but not become a sl**, then she needs to realize this: She doesn't have to enjoy everyone she comes in contact with. She needs to be safe. I was once told that every woman is sitting onn a gold mine and doesn't realize the power she has. Every man (just about) wants and knos that. They are afraid that we might figure this out so they become controlling in one form or another. All she needs to do, is find someone with whom have mutual feelings and try kama sutra or sexual reflexology. Congrads on leaving him by the way.
The difference between a nice lady and a piggish lady is called
discretion. If she is having casual sex, hopefully it is with single men and she is clean and uses double protection. She should
know her own limit of what will be called trashy when and if anyone else finds out about her lovelife. Its her business but if she
is not discreet and clean then her reputation will be tarnished. You might not condone what she does and with whom but are you
a friend or foe ? You should not be the one to broadcast your friends business.
when u get aids and die , oh ok i mean when u get an std . look how many guys do u wanna fool with in ur life 10 ? 20? 30? and how many have u already had in ur life , i mean do the math , id say that for ur sake u shouldnt just be out there doing whomever , are those guys gonna be around when bloods pouring out ur a$$ on ur death bed from aids[ oops i mean ur friend ]
well, it's until it gets out of hand. I would say that 1 or 2 guys is fine. Not more than 2.
I would say it crosses the line when she does it for their attention and not for herself; you can get attention from guys in SO many other ways, because I am sure she never got attention AT ALL from her ex. And as long as she knows the guys are not married or attached to others; like being sensitive to other girls in the dating pool. Other than that, if there are no children at risk (because of relationship/bonding issues or strangers in the house) then she should do what she wants without compromising her moral ground.
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