How Can I tell My Boyfriend That Im Not Ready To Have Sex?


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Simply come out and say "i am not ready for sex" if he loves you he will wait for you when your ready. If he leaves then he only wanted you for sex, is a jerk and doesn't deserve you.

Never be scared to tell a guy you are not ready for sex. Its your body and only have sex when you feel ready for it. I tip my hat to you for waiting until you are ready.. nice to know there are sensible people out there
don't be shy or don't think that you are hurting his feelings.. it's your body! tell him to *ucking get off you!
simply just tell him that you are not ready for it yet. and if he is a good boyfriend he will understand. but if he isn't he will get upset and then you will know that maybe that's all he wants. you need to just say, "I'm sorry but I'm not ready right now and I hope you understand." I hope this helps. :]]
tell him honey i am not ready to have sex sorry to disappoint u n i willlet you know when i am ready
Just come out and tell him. It's your body and you shouldn't let anyone pressure you into something you aren't ready for, especially something as serious as sex. If he really loves you, he should understand how you feel and not pressure you into it. If he does try to change your mind, he's probably not the right guy for you. Good luck- hope this helps!!
you just tell him no
say its not the right time and you want it to be special
Keep your pants on! Just tell him. If he dumps you because of that or keeps pressuring you, then he really doesn't love you, and just wants sex, and you are definitely better off with someone who isn't going to pressure you into something you don't want to do. Good on you for waiting!
Just like that, in a clear and firm way.

"Honey, I am not ready to have sex yet. I want to wait until . Do you love me enough to wait?"
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