13 and need help?
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I know I've answered with this on another Q&A, but the same applies here, despite your age:
You're clever to ask :) There's nothing better than getting a lot of girls together to discuss this.
What works for me is gently stroking the area around the clitoris and running a finger or thumb over it. I think it's a nicer feeling than actually masturbating inside the vagina. You'll get much better pleasure by caressing your clit gently, and then speed up as the pleasure starts to mount.
If you need harder sensations you can always beat yourself to arousal first (sounds violent, I know, but bear with me). You can use a hair brush (the back of it, obviously) or something similar to 'thwack' your clitoral area. This may make you slightly sore, but it should start turning you on too. Then start with the stroking. Let me know how you get on ;)
hahahahah. dont you think you are a little young? wait are you a girl? well you are young if you are a girl to do that. but buy a dildo at Spencer's Gift Shop, a lot better than you fingers
jsut touch your area or massege your boobs or something!
There are plenty of magazines and sites to answer your questions.
Just wash your hands before you do it and do what feels natural and have fun! You may want to experiment with the shower head or bath tub facet if you like, lie with your legs up and the water running on your vagina.
Oh, by the way, don't feel bad about your age. Masturbation is completely age appropriate at 13. I started masturbating around 11 or 12. You don't need to tell your parents! And no, it doesn't lead to sex at a young age. I didn't have sex until I was 19 almost 20! It's a healthy activity!
girl first of all talk to ur parents about this if u don't feel comfortable talkin to ur parents just don't do it cuz i think ur a lil too young to start that other wise look on other websites
I know it's hard with your hormones going. But try to think of something other than sex. Masturbation at a young age usually leads to actual sexual activity. I hope you understand that it is best that you wait and be waited for! God Bless
Start by usuing a very clean finger and just explore a little on what makes you feel good
First of all, you are not too young to masturbate, despite what some people have said. For crying out loud, even infants masturbate! I started when I was in elementary school (though I did not know what I was doing then).
It's really up to experimentation. There are sites that focus on female masturbation if you google it.
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