First time penetration?
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After the first time it shouldn't hurt her anynore. Maybe she's not lubricated enough. Try some generic KY Jelly from any drug store. And if you have sex with another woman, be sure to wear a condom with her and your gf. (Unless you get tested for all STDs.) If your gf's pain continues, she should get a pap smear FOR SURE. Good luck to you both! :)
Get some KYJelly or something similar. Lubrication will help.
Did you put it in the right hole?
u need lubrication
an dude always wear a condom unless ur gonna marry her an stuff but in da other hand u can get her pregnant an have to marry her so idk u will be screwd both ways lol
use candles and don't get too hard listen to soapy music and the thing will be cured by itself
Lubrication and/or a small amount of numbing agent.
damn those sharp penises
try oral or something first like a toy to get her use to it
umm its going to hurt for a while. its life and also please wear a condem.
slap her vagina till' it numbs...den continue to have sex...
Pop her cherry that;s why.
Takes about three times of sex to pop her cherry then she will love it.
Im serious this is no joke.
It hurts becasue her opening is small but after a while it should feel fine. try finger her hole first to strech it a little bit
Have an alcoholic drink before having sex.
gag ball... like the ones they used in pulp fiction..
Just **** that *****. She will get used to it. If not then shes not worth it and find something more loose
lots of foreplay. Use your fingers and tongue on her. Make sure she is really ready before attemoting. Try to make her have an orgasm before penetrating. Use lots of lubricant if it is not already very wet.
Like everyone else said >...LUBE her up first!
Have her get with a big black man for a few months first and then come back to you. I promise yo all's problem will be solved.
Knee jerk reaction would be using KY jelly .Other option would be to arouse her more in order for her to procude her natural fluids, then go slowly with the process...this what pychologist term as reconditoning...unitl her body get used to it.
Have her take some tylenol about half an hour before hand, and expect this to happen frequently for the first month or so of sexual activity. Regular activity will help to introduce her to the pleasure. If pain medications don't help, she should see her gynocologist because she may need to be helped along... She needs to be on birth control if you are having unprotected sex anyway!
You should try using lubrication if she doesn't want to use a lubed condom for easier penetration.
If that's not the case, if she is a virgin, then you are most likely pushing at her hymen and it is beginning to tear. Once it tears then the pain will most likely go away. It depends on what kind of pain she is feeling.
If it is not those 2 things, then you are probably stretching out her vaginal walls. Just keep trying and hopefully her vagina will get used to the penetrations and all of the stretching or the ripping of her hymen, and the pain will fade.
If she doesn;t want condoms, too bad, Now a day's, with all the information of pregnency and STDs, it is a beyond foolish choice not too. Use a condom, for the sake of your health and prosperity. Please,use one
As for the pain, maybe you should consult your doctor..
Make oral sex before u want to penetrate her. That makes her vagina wet which in turn makes ur penetration easy. Also u can use vaginal jellys for painless penetration.
get her wet!
well the first time, you already stretched her hymen(cherry), so pain will go away in a short period of time. So keep sticken it. but dude, wear a fuckin condom...
try to use water-based lubricants before you go into.. or try to have a longer foreplay... this will naturally lubricate the vagina..
Dude wear a condom and of course use ky jelly! You also need lots of foreplay to loosen things up. I know that sounds funny. But please make sure you wear a condom you never know what could happen.
your not using condoms? do you WANT to get this girl pregnant!
First of all Huang K, You seem to be the sensible one in that relationship so please please use a condom.
Second, maybe it hurts cause she is too young to have sex,
If she is not too young, get her lubed properlty. go to the pharmacy and get Ky jelly.
use lots and lots of lubricant.
the pain will stop after the first few times so dont worry. just make sure you use lots of wet stuff and start of slowly and gentle.
First of all, please use a condom, it is for both of you two's protection - not only from pregnancy, but also from STD's. Too, if she does not want you to use condoms, she needs to have BC, again, for protection to you both.
Yes, it will hurt her the first time she is penetrated, this cannot be avoided. The hymen will tear away from the vaginal wall, causing the pain. Use extra lubrication. You should be able to finish up the first time, but let her vagina rest about a week to enable it to heal from the trauma of the first time. As time goes on, the discomfort lessens; it varies from woman to woman, but the discomfort after the first-time penetration is not as bad as the first time itself.
Avoid having sex with anyone who refuses to use condoms. That is a huge red flag: she could have STDs you could get. Plus get pregnant. You don't need either one of those things in your life.
Get out now.
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