How do i tell my mom this?!?!?!?!??!!?
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Bottom line is that you need mom's support now. So please tell her. If it would be easier, ask your sister to be there with you when you do it. You're mom will need time to adjust to the idea that you are pregnant and also time to prepare. So tell her as soon as possible. Good luck to you!
well you should deffo tell her because soon she will work it out for herself and its better coming from you. just sit down and say mum i need to talk to you and tell her : )
You have to tell her sweetie. Or you could get your sister to tell her.
Just be like "Mum, I really care for you and I don't want you to worry or anything, but I'm pregnant."
ummmm hi mom your gona be a grand ma
Just let it all out there is no way she'll kill you, because it will be a double murder lol. She'll worry even if you do not tell her after you have the baby and that will be even worse, so tell her ASAP before it's too late
just tell her
and ur sister is there if ur moms not
And you think she wont be upset when she finds out you have been keeping this information from her?
You have to tell her as soon as possible as it is not the job of your older sister to look after you. You are still a minor and there are implications with that. You could also be getting your sister into trouble by allowing her to shoulder the burden.
Your mother will find out eventually and believe me the sooner the better.
Uh Oh!!
Sit her down and tell her that you need her love and support more than ever now in life. Tell her you made a terrible mistake and are now having to face the consequences but also accept them!! Maybe have your sister there for support!
Good luck my friend!
Now pick a good name for him or her!
You need to tell her regardless of the worries. keeping this a secret will only upset her more. You know, once she gets used to the idea, ......she might even be happy to become a grandparent?
Awww :( I would sit down and talk with her, just a calm talk when she's in a good mood. Good luck sweetie!
At 15 you need to tell her ASAP and in your best interest, have her arrange an abortion. I know people don't want to hear that but you have no business even thinking of carrying this child to term. You are way to young, and in my state the guy who got you pregnant can go to jail just cause he had sex with a girl under 16. I wish you luck
I'm 16 and I just had a pregnancy scared just sit her down and tell her u made a big mistake and please don't hate me when I tell u this. Mom iam 4months pregnant I know ur mad and upset at me but please just listen to what I have to say and finish it off with what ever.
you need to tell her...In the long run you mum would rather no that for you to keep something like this from her...If you are keeping it which by the sounds of it you are, shes going to find out sooner than later and i recommend sooner than later because you will need her help..you are too young to go through this alone especially without you mum...
Be honest.and remember she loves you and will be there for you know matter what, yes she may be angry at first but she will get used to the idea and everything will work out in the end!
Good luck xxx
Ask your sister to help you sit down with your mother and tell her.
You better do it soon, you'll be showing soon if you're not already. Hopefully the father of the child is staying in the picture.
He should face your mother with you. Most parents are shocked at first but know that the baby will be their grandchild and they will eventually love the child. Tell your mother you really need her support right now and you know it's difficult for her too due to the divorce. Good luck.
Ok first of all, I might sound biased when i say this but DONT GET AN ABORTION. You are way too young and the emotional stress will be the worst for you. You are much better off just talking to your mom about this and having the baby. You probably weren't considering an abortion initially, but just don't let anyone pressure you.
Second of all, it will be difficult to break this to your mother, but it is inevitable. better sooner than later.
i guess just tell her u just found out i think she will be rather upset if u say uv known for so long and didn't tell her best way of telling her is u done pregnancy test about a week ago and u made an appointment with the doctor and u found out u were pregnant etc
but just tell her and let her think it over cause it will be a big shock for her
good luck
Te best thing to do is just face her. She's going to be upset anyway, no matter when you tell her. Just get it over with.
When you go down for breakfast , just say hi Grandma she will get the message.
you have to tell her dont worry gods looking over you take her to dinner and tell her there.
Tell her now! That is a life changing event and it is necessary for your mom to know. Right now go tell her.
Honey, this is why they invented birth control. The only thing you can do is tell her. She'll most likely be supportive, but she might be mad at first. If you don't tell her, imagine how mad she'll be when the due day comes!
you really need to tell her. sit her down to a nice dinner or just while you are watching TV. if you feel more comfortiable, ask your sister(s) to be there with you. put the TV on mute an dbe like mom, there is something i need to tell you. be gentle, but not too gentle. tell her, "mom, i know i shouldnt have kept this a secret, but you are going to be a grandmother." and continue from there. she may yell, so be prepared. You really need her support, so just tell her. she may be angry at first, but she will be ok when she sees her beautiful grandchild. good luck. hope this helped.
Well you are not old enough to be having sex, but on to the pregnancy thing. You need to tell her ASAP. Since you are not old enough to work, go to school, and care for your child, your mom will have to raise it until you are old enough to do so on your own. She deserves to know what shes in for.
You need to tell her. I think she will be more upset finding out on her own than you telling her. Plus you are going to need all the support you can get! Your sister is not going to able to be the only one. Just tell her! Sit her down and explain calmly. Most likely she is going to be more hurt than mad at you.
I don't know. but some moms would be more than happy to have a grandson/granddaughter
sex at your age is risky not just because of pregnancy but more serious consequences like AIDS. most guys think of protection after the intercourse, so please be careful. to your question, get very close friends of your family, preferably an older lady, to tell your mom with your older sister.
Well, you are 15 and Pregnant, so your mom IS going to be upset. HOPEFULLY though she will get over it and help you out. Realize before you talk to her that she will be upset - probably more FOR you than AT you. I have a teenage daughter and if she were pregnant I would mostly feel like I didn't do a good enough job parenting so I would be mad at myself more. Also I would be mad that she was in a very difficult situation, and probably a little mad at her for not being more careful. But what's done is done. So sit your mom down and let her know that you have something to tell her that is hard for you. Tell her you would like for her to listen to everything you need to say before she says anything, then LET HER TALK TOO! There will be lots of tears, but it will be okay as long as you give her the time to let it all sink in. I'm sure it took a little bit of time for it to sink in for you too! Also if you have a plan for the baby, like adoption, or keeping it, it would be good to let mom know what you are thinking. Hopefully whatever you decide, you will keep going to school! That is REALLY important to parents.
Good Luck!
well no matter what your gonna have to tell her and she's gonna be upset. you have to face that you kept something from her , a child , and she IS going to be upset. It's a really hard thing to do. but if you don't feel that you can do it in person maybe try leaving a note at a time when you think is right. of course don't giive it to her on a day when she's had a horrible day at work , has a headache , and got in a fight with your sister. But don't wait till you start showing. That's going to make her feel even more hurt. If your dad doesn't know either you should probably tell him too...or get your mom to do it (but since she's divorced...YOU might HAVE to) If you don't wanna give her a note how about getting ur sis to do it ... she has been helping you all along anyway and make sure to tell her everything is fine and the baby is healthy so she doesn't have to worry.
OOH, that's a tough one. Um, ok, tell her calmly in a nice way that you guys need to talk. Sit her down and slowly get into the conversation. But, don't tell her that your sister has been taking you, so that she won't be involved in the trouble. After all, she has been nice enough to take you to the appointments. Also, tell your mom you're going to need her support 100% all the way. Now, hopefully you will learn from this mistake. Who knows, maybe this will be a blessing, and your baby might be a cute, little, bundle of joy. Your mom might need this to take her mind off of the divorce. Who knows, this may work out for every one. Stay in school, and good luck.
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