Little sister's loser boyfriend...?

Question:

i'm very worried about my 15 y/o sister being with her boyfriend boyfriend, he has been an alcoholic since he was 14( he's 17), he constantly tells her that she would be nothing without him and that no guy would ever want her, he also forces her to pay for everything he thinks we're "rich', he is also a racist and wants her to join the kkk with him, she admitted to me that he pressured her into having sex numerous times, but she begged me not to tell our parents yet because she's "ashamed" and can't tell them yet, i know i need to stop this freak from hurting my sister but we have a very strong bond and i don't wanna betray her trust...

Answers:
you have to conc=vince your siter to tell your poarents before something much more serious happens. at least she is still young now so the damage done wont be too bad.

i was in a similar situation to your sister when i was 16 and was pregnant by him by the time i was 17 because he didnt use any contraception when he pressured me to have sex.

so you really want your sister to have to deal with a baby or abortion at such a young age? Ive struggled with my decision for the past 2 years and it doesnt get any easier so help her out. she's very lucky to have a sister like you who cares about her and whom she can talk to about this. I only wish i had an older sister like you when i was miserable.

All the best x

its for the best talk to her and thats not true since when dose she has to listen to what other people say about her. if she breaks up with him he will be come abusive. there was a story about this on the news.go on abc13news.com if he hits her or rapes her then call the police..
i hope this helps.

Tell your sister that you are going to have her "boyfriend" arrested for statutory rape. (15 can't possibly be the age of consent ANYWHERE, but try to find out. Look online.) Don't say "I'll do it unless you break up with him"; just DO it. You are her big sister, and you are supposed to help protect her. She may get mad, but you will both know you are doing the right thing.

TELL YOUR PARENTS. Talk to them together so she stays brave and tells them the truth. They will more likely be mad at the loser than at her, and will appreciate being FINALLY told the truth. Good luck.

It's not betraying a trust to tell your parents. Your sister trusts you to help her stay safe, and that's a more important trust to keep. This jerk is a hazard to your sister in more ways than one, and she is way too young to be dealing with it. If his forehead said POISON you wouldn't be hesistating, and it may as well say "FUTURE MURDERER" or "FUTURE GIRLFRIEND BEATER". It already says "RAPIST". So run to your parents and spill you guts. Save your sister now before it's too late.

You can stage something, like tell your parents to that she needs to be picked up at his house during the middle of a prty when he's drinking and have the parents discover it on their own. Then they'll forbid her from dating him and you can say you had no part of this to your sister so it's Win-Win.

you should tell your parents. tell them or tell your sister that you don't feel right about this guy and you think something is wrong. tell her that you think she's changed since she's met him, doing things she doesn't want to do and that any guy who wouldn't respect her wishes isn't worthy of being with her.

First, you need to tell your parents and the cops. Since your sister is under 16, it is ILLEGAL for him to have any type of sex with her-oral or vaginal. It is illegal for him to even touch her or show her his "parts'. This guy obviously preys on girls much younger than himself, and he is not a good influence eon your sister. He will definetly ruin her life. Please call the cops or the child abuse hotline ASAP.

Little sister's loser boyfriend...?

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