My girlfriend has a medical excuse for everything she does and dosent do. i think its bull im a wrong?

Question:

my girlfriend is in the medical field and it seems like she has a medical excuse for everything and its quite annoying and discouraging. for example, im in really good shape but she is not. she is not very atheletic and hates exercise. when i try to give her rules or incourage her on getting in shape she just argues with me and gives me medical excuses. i tell her she has to do crunches to get her stomach more toned and she says her hips pop so she cant. i tell she cannot be getting up in the middle of the night and eating if she wants to loose weight. she tells me thats she believes she has low blood sugar and she cant sleep unless she eats. that one sounds like complete bull to me. what do you think? we go to jog, when i try give her incouragment to push herself further, she says she dosent sweat so her body overheats. i do try believe and listen to her reason but sometimes i cant. am i being insensitive or is she a little loony?

Answers:
i think its a bit of both...u need to confront her and tell her u dont like the fact she comes up with an excuse for everything...let her know that the reason u always tell her to do stuff like that is to encourage her to lose weight.she sounds a bit stubborn & u may not be able to get her to budge but at least ur trying...but i wouldnt blame u for not believing her haha

Sounds like a slacker.

A lot of that is total BS. Although the low blood sugar is legitimate. If she wants to keep her glucose levels up throughout the night she needs a HIGH PROTEIN snack before bed. Not during the night, like you said she will not lose weight this way. Part of the problem with working in the medical field is that the more you know, the more you read into a problem that may not really be a problem. I hope that makes sense to you. She sounds like a bit of a hypochondriac to me.

Some people will use any excuse if they don't want to do something they know they should. Being in the medical field, she should know better. Not so much looney as just plain ole bone LAZY!

it sounds like she is making a lot of excuses. being in the medical field doesn't help because she can use anything "medical" as an excuse because she has a lot of knowledge on the subject. i don't know her personally so i can;t say if it is lunacy (lol) but it certainly is immature.

She's loony. I'd RUN in the other direction.

My girlfriend has a medical excuse for everything she does and dosent do. i think its bull im a wrong?

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