Was It A Big Deal To Lose Ur Virginity?
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Everyone is nervous the first time they have sex. Everyone wants it to be a special occasion, but in actuality, most people would say it could have gone a little better. Losing your virginity, and the experience that goes along with it all lends to the person you have sex with. You should have a special connection and be able to enjoy it, no matter if it hurts the first time or it doesn't. You have to be extremely comfortable with your partner. If you really love someone and make a mature decision and evaluate all aspects of losing your virginity, you shouldn't regret it.
As for pain, it will hurt depending on your BODY. Your cervix relaxes more and more overtime and becomes thinner and more worn with exercise early in life--like if you did gymnastics or a lot of exercise when you were little chances are it won't hurt as bad. But it all depends.
It is a very big decision you will live with for the rest of your life!
Personally I'm waiting until I'm married, but if you're planning on doing it, and you're not absolutley comfortable, you shouldn't do it.
Everyones gunna be nervous, but if you're afraid of regretting it, or feeling bad later, maybe you should wait until you're 100% positive you won't be.
Since you had no answers, I figured I would help you out.
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if you have to ask these questions, then your to young to be losing yours.
I felt great at the time, then a wreck because i was scared cuz i thought i was preganant, yeah probably way to nervous, but i should have waited, i really wish i would have...
I think it was a little disappointing. I was expecting "fireworks" so to say but it was just like okay that is it. However, that is not to say I don't regret it. I don't regret anything that I have done cause that says to me that I don't like who I am now and I am who I am now because of the choices I have made. I was definitely nervous as would most people be. I guess the one part that made it disappointing was that it hurt and it didn't get any easier because it was over rather quickly.
you get nervous but at the same time you know it was bad
I REGRET IT TO THIS DAY! This is something that should be cherished and not to be taking likely.
NO, I GOT RAPED @ AGE 13 AND FELT SHAME 4 IT. I TOLD NOBODY FOR YEARS. I DID FALL IN LOVE YEARS LATER...AND HAD A GREAT SEX LIFE. LOSING UR VIRGINITY IS A BIG DECISION...JUST MAKE SURE U R SAFE- CONDOMS, ETC..AND DON'T GET IN A POSITION...LIKE I DID! KEEP SAFE AND MAKE SURE U REALLY R READY 4 THIS.
It's a HUGE deal. It's a once in a lifetime thing.
I felt awful, and yes I reget it.
I was totally pressured in to it, even though I didn't know that then.
I wish I would have thought about it more, and been more ready for it.
I didn't feel any different afterward. For me, personally, it just wasn't a big deal. I know a lot of women have the "bond" to the guy who popped their cherry.I feel no bond with the guy whatsoever. I think people put too much stock in losing the virginity, when what they should be worried about is approaching sex with your head on straight. If you're going to do it PROTECT YOURSELF....use condoms, understand how they work, and make sure you are not doing it to make some guy "like you". Boys lie, they just wanna stick their "wang" in something dark and wet, if it's not you, it'll be some other chick, or a cantaloupe...LOL!
Wasn't a big thing for me at all, I was kind of nervous though.
I'm still with the person I lost it to ten years ago.
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