This is soooo embarassing. Please help me.?
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i feel for you, its very hurtful and embarrassing to be told that you dont smell good. when you do everything you can to keep clean and in fact are a little bit obesessive about keeping yourself clean. i do understand that your boyfreind prob didnt mean to hurt you, because i am going thru something very similer myself. and my guy well he was upset that he had to tell me this knowing it would hurt me as well and yes i was very hurt, but at the same time i understand his needing to tell me this so i could take care of the problem, and i am not angry or upset with him in fact i love him very much, and i will do everything in my power to resolve this problem, and not just becasue he wont french me or whatever, but because if i have this problem i need to resolve it, and if it bugs him i need to resolve it, and if its something to do with my health i need to find out what it is, in fact i have considered getting checked out by the dr, to see if iam still all normal down there, i was 4 months ago when i had a gyno exam, and i know i dont have a yeast infection either, i have had lots in the past due to the fact that i am diabetic and i know what the signs and symptoms are and i dont have any of those, so i found a site that had some does and donts of how to care for your down there area, i will add the link at the bottom for you to look at and i have tried to use a couple of the suggestins i dont know if they have helped but i will find out. and iam still looking into what different things i can do about it, and i would suggest that even though this is vey embarrassing you ask your mom or your sisters if they have any suggestions or if they do anything special to clean down there. i know i asked my sister. she wasn't helpful though, but as for your breath i would suggest cleaning your tounge and getting your teeth cleaned by a dentist, because i have started cleaning my tounge regualrly and i know i have palqe bulid up on my teeth that i cant remove my self so iam gonna get my teeth cleaned they are due for it anyway. and if you have sinus infections on a reg basis they can contribute to your breath being smelly as the drippage goes into your throat and onto the back of your tounge, go get some meds from the dr if you got this and keep your mouth really clean, rinse with salt water every night my dr said that would help to cleanse and dry out the drippage, i aint tried it yet but thats what he said when i called and asked what i could do about my excess drippage. so good luck with this and if you wish feel free to contact me thru this site. i will be happy to speak to you about our common problem.
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by the way i saw that someone asked if your obese, i know ofr a fact that being obese has nothing to do with if your breath smells or if you smell down there as long as your washing and keeping yourself clean down there as i asked my dr that when i called him as it made me wonder if it could contribute to my problem as i am a bit overwieght as well.
modified: today i talked to a nurse and she suggested using something called a peri wash its used in medical facilties to help control and get rid of oders as well as to clean, it is sold in drug stores and it cost about 3 to 7 dollars a bottle.
i got some today and i am going to try it and see if it helps. maybe it would help you as well. but you should get checked out by the dr to see if you got an ifection or anything.
Try some mints, I guess. And if you have a really strong smell "down there" it could be a yeast infection, but can be treated easily.
EDIT: My dad smokes and is a heavy beer/coffee drinker...so his breath absolutely STINKS when you just talk to him. He uses this Breath RX stuff and it REALLY works. Have you tried it? It's a type of mouthwash.
Make sure you shower .
keep clean .
& brush your teeth .
other then that , still the smell ?
go get it checked out .
Blood sugar issues can sometimes manifest as odors in...moister areas. Usually it's the underarms, though.
you sound far too young in this post to even be having sex. but if you are sick with an infection you could easily pass it on. and having sex could do that- for all you know maybe he gave you it. . Quite having sex and get to a doctor asap.
bad smells are not natural
brush your teeth more often and WASH DOWN THERE REGULARLY! but dont use douche cause its bad for you. And use gum or breath mints ;]
you may have some sort of infection down there.
or you could try showering right before and see
if that helps. and maybe brush your teeth and use
listeriene before you see him,
mints, brush the teeth, shower down there
you may have a yeast infection which can be taken care of easliy
if you still "smell" get it checked out!
Mouth odors are usually caused by food left between the teeth or cavities left untreated. Use dental floss each night between each of your teeth. See a dentist if the odor continues. As for the other, you may or may not have an infection. It is best to see your doctor or gynecologist.
try mints and some vagisil?
not only brush your teeth, scrape your tongue and floss. in the meantime stop having sex and work on your relationship. it sounds as if you are not ready to be intimate, nor is the boyfriend.
I know someone going through the same thing. PLEASE look into this. I bet money your boyfriend is not making this up IF he is fairly experienced with this sort of thing. How is your general health? Do you have issues like sinus, diabetes, etc. Are you obese? I would like to know if there are common links here. Above all, don't just stop investigating here. Well meaning people often do not know what the hel* they are talking about. Go to a Doctor if you can and don't disguise anything. He can't help you if you don't go in the natural condition of things.
I do not know what could make your mouth smell bad unless you have some dental decay that is causing the mouth odor. Your vaginal area may smell from an infection called bacterial vaginosis that makes the discharge milky white and smells like fish. You could also smell from sweat around the point where your legs join your body in the front- there are sweat glands there that secrete sweat much like what comes from your underarms. If this is the problem then using a small amount of deodorant on just that area may help. Very occasionally the odor is from an infection called trich or from a tampon that has been left in from your last period. A visit to the doctor or NP might help you sort out what the odor is from
eat more sweet citrus foods like pineapples
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