Orgasm problems?
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How are you masturbating? are you putting your fingers in and out of your vagina? this is not the best way. The best way for a woman to masturbate is to gently rub her clitoris. Your clitoris is right at the top of your slit ,where the 2 sides meet, under your belly button.Slide your fingers between the lips and feel around at the back for a small lump. It should tingle when you touch it. Lick your finger, and rub the lump gently in small circles. You should start to get wet. Keep rubbing, next you will start to feel like you really need to pee. You dont need to pee, keep rubbing, the feeling will pass.Next you may tense up, or start to shake. its ok keep going. Next you will start to feel a feeling building up inside you, its ok keep rubbing. Try to hold the feeling in as long as possible, and when you can't hold any more let it go. You should feel fantastic good luck
Are you sure you are not having one... it sounds like you are, with the getting tired and the part where you said you get totally unaroused... usually that is what happens after you do have an orgasm...maybe??
Do some more research on orgasms. I agree with allison, you might not compelety know what an orgasm is. Since you are getting close to one, I think youre on the right track. Keep doing what youre doing and you'll reach one eventually.
are you fingering yourself? you can also try on the shower if you have a lower fosset or you can take the shower spray off from the top. try that cuz fingering does take a long time
try rubbing your clit and spread your legs wide open. or use your shower head make sure u can pull it down so it can reach your vagina, put it on blast and spray it on your clit eventually you will have an orgasm within two minutes and then squirt too if you can cuz i can.
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