Guys CAN get raped.?
Question:
I posted a question on here and i got severely upset about there awnser,.
I know my BF wasnt raped but he was forced to have sex in a way.his last GF begged him and pleaded to him to do sexual acts to her and bugged him and basically made it impossible for him not to do something to her.
He hates her... hate her too but he doesnt realize why.This is why i hate her... She forced him basically to have sex with her. She said it kept them "warm" while they ran away.Can someone explain please?
Answers:
I don't know why people feel that way. Of course men can get raped and/or pressured into sexual acts that they really didn't want to do. He may hate her because of the pressure that she put him under, but she didn't rape him in this situation. I can't explain her actions, but I can understand his feelings toward her. It would be just like a guy pressuring a girl to have sex. Very uncomfortable and degrading.
I dont think he was raped in that example...she didnt threaten him she just nagged and convinced him to do it.
It would be rape if another guy held a gun to his head and then forced him to have sex. Or even if a women did that, however some guys might like it if its a women.
she was being possessive
im sorry but i think your a little nieve.in order for a guy to even have sex he has to get hard. i dont think anyone can make a man hard by force.its just not a turn on. i think you should investigate this a little further.
He wasn't raped, more like manipulated into doing something he didn't want to do ,that could be a big reason why he hates her.
she kinda did rape him b/c he did not want to have sex with her and she kept at it and would not let it go so its is kinda rape.
okay so rape has two meanings.
1. the unlawful compelling of a woman through physical force or duress to have sexual intercourse.
2. any act of sexual intercourse that is forced upon a person.
But the thing is your BF could have said no but when woman are raped its physically forced upon them it wasn't their boyfriends begging them to have sex... i completely understand why you hate you BF's ex...and i do believe a man can be raped its just less likely
That's just what your bf is telling you so you don't blame him for not being a virgin for you, you blame her. What someone says about a person after a relationship has ended is often far from the truth.
Basically you hate the fact that he wasn't a virgin when you gave yours up to him, and he's trying to direct all your frustration over that fact to blame on her.
well, guys can get raped but, its rare because guys for more power than women. but, being forced to have sex is being raped, when the person says no and the other person forces them, its rape. but, it sounds like he just gave in.
well technically it isn't rape because he chose to have sex with her no matter how much he said in his head he didn't want to he did it with her anyway so it wasn't rape
Yes, men can be raped.
Sexual assault is about being forced or coerced into a sexual act that you do not want to do or are not comfortable with.
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