My mom wants me to get a test to see if im still a virgin?
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There is no test for virginity. She's just concerned about you because she knows you're not mature enough to be having sex. Prove her wrong, always use a condom and get yourself on birthcontrol.
by the way that ur writting this, i don't think that your old enough to be having sex. i think that the doctor can only prove/show if your hemen is broken...
Where do you live? If you're in the US then I'm pretty sure your mother isn't allowed to do that. There is doctor-patient confidentiality and I think it applies with teenagers too (I don't know how old you are either, but I'm assuming teenager).
Yes, it is possible to break your hymen down there before having sex. Bike-riding, tampon use, masturbating, they all make it possible. You can say that and the doctor will know this happens. Just so you know, the hymen is right at the opening to the vagina, so you don't need to go "deep" to break it.
I highly doubt they would be able to find any semen in you after that many months, nor would they bother to try.
Just make sure when you do have sex you are being responsible, you should start using condoms.
She's trying to scare you...there's no simple test to check and see if your still a virgin. Only a doctor can do that and I seriously doubt if she's going to drag you into the doctors office for that...that's crazy.
Don't worry, she's trying to scare you out of having sex.
I don't know how old you are but maybe you should consider being abstinent.
Can I buy a vowel? I hate computer abbreviations.
I agree that she is trying to scare you because she is concerned about you.
The doctor can tell if your hymen is broken, but he can't tell how it got broken.
The hymen is the thin membrane that sometimes covers the opening to the vagina if you're a virgin. I say "sometimes" because, even if you haven't had sex, the hymen can do a bit of a disappearing act due to an overzealous workout at the gym, horseback riding, tampons, and even passionate "heavy petting" with your boyfriend. (It's not an impenetrable barrier, anyway, as it has holes to allow menstrual blood to escape.)
They cannot tell if you are a virgin or not, don't worry. Even by checking your hymen, each woman hymen is different and not everyone has one.
"You may or may not be able to see the remains of your hymen, because they disappear for different reasons and at different times. Exercising, using a tampon, the hormonal changes during puberty, and sexual activity can all cause the hymen to disintegrate. Whether or not you have a visible hymen says nothing about whether or not you have had sex—it is impossible to tell simply by looking at a woman’s hymen whether she has had sexual intercourse. "
She would need to have a semen swab done or have you vagina tested for condom or lubricant residue...yeah that stuff is not covered by insurance unless you have been raped or sexually assaulted. She is going through a lot to scare you.
Don't worry about this so called test, maybe you should talk to her more about sex and how aware you are of the dangers...because you are aware of the dangers right?
honey, there is no test. if your mom says otherwise she is wrong. many people say u can see if someone is a virgin because they have broken their hymen, and they are wrong. the hymen can be broken even before a sexual act. it can be broken by playing sports or using a tampon...so aont be worried...u only in your heart, know if you'd had sex.
There really is NO test to determine if youre a virgin. The hymen if its broken could be broken for a bunch of different reasons. Also if the doctor checks you out and sees tears or sign of ruff sex that could tell you if you have had sex. Also I'm not so sure if the doctor found if you were having sex he could tell your mother due to Hippa act.
There is NO WAY your mom can find out for sure if you are a virgin unless you end up pregnant or if he was inside you and he caused some abrasions that really only a doctor will be able to see.
If she's looking for a hymen, well that can break doing vigorous activity.
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