My boyfriends ex girlfriend is hotten than me...?


Question:
I know this sounds really retarded but my bf is always saying how hot is ex girlfriend is.and everything. What do I do?

Answers:
Your boyfriend should NOT be comparing you to his ex. That's really wrong! He should be appreciating you for who you are! Who cares if you aren't as 'hot' as his ex... Who defines who is 'hot' and who isn't anyway?

Tell him to get over himself and if he keeps saying it than tell him to go back to his ex.

I understand how much this must be affecting your self-esteem and it is really wrong, you deserve someone who appreciates you for 'you' and doesn't keep comparing you!
Ditch the stupid boyfriend!
Show him the door and give him a quarter to call her.he is a fool.
break up with him thats just being a @ss hole THATS SOO MEEANN!
Be better in bed. Fixes everything.
he's a huge JERK. dump him hun, no guy should talk about his ex like that in front of you, or even not in front of you. he obviously doesnt respect you and as much as it might hurt, he obviously still has feelings for her. move on find someone better. = ]
You flash him...so then he can be like "oh **** my girlfriends hot" haha i'm kidding but hes an idiot
1. Dump your retarded boyfriend.
2. Get help for your low self esteem.
Doesn't sound like a good boyfriend if he talks like that about his ex in front of you...get outta there, girl! Sounds like he just wants good sex!
tell him directly that you're hotter...then look at his reaction.
Find someone who appreciates you.

How rude..
dump his stupid ***!!
What an asshole (him)! She dumped him I suppose?
Get a new botfriend who only has eyes for you.
If he doesn't think you are totally smoking, what is he doing with you? Does he want to just use you for what ever he can get?
spell hotter right...hotten hehehe
Here's a quick, mature, reasonable way:

Tell him you want to discuss something really important to you and serious. Make sure he realizes you're not playing.

Then tell him this hurts your feelings, you don't find it 'harmless' or 'no big deal'...and that hurting your feelings is something he should care about.

Ask him directly if he is trying to tell you something or suggest something to you by bringing it up repeatedly.

Finally, tell him that you have enough self-respect and dignity that you're not the type of girl to put up with that kind of lack of respect. Let him know gently, non-threateningly...but firmly.that the next time he does that, you're out of there.

And back it up.

Next time he brings it up, you have to decide to either get an immediate apology (hey, guys are stupid...I ought to know) or YOU WALK, GIRL.

Best to you.
i LOVE what emtd65 said she is TOTALLY

talk about how hawt your ex is then tell him off and dump him and find someone who appreciates you!
YOU GO GIRL!
Tell him if she is so hot then go back to her. You need to get rid of that looser.
First of all what is your boyfriend still doing talking about his ex. There's a reason why she's the ex and you're the new girlfriend. If he's comparing you to her or just bringing it up for no reason then i think he's with the wrong person. You need someone who likes you for who you are and how you look and not someone who's comparing you to their ex and/or trying to make you look like her if that's what he wants then he needs to go back to her and leave you alone so you can find someone out there who appreciates everything that you are.
Are you seriously asking what you should do? Get some self esteem and kick him to the curb. He is a stupid jerk disrespecting you like that in front of your face. I hope your not sleeping with him, if you are then he is using you.
BREAK UP WITH HIM! You don't need to put up with his attitude.
Get rid of him. Any guy who is still obsessing about his ex-girlfriend is not worth being with. Find someone who only cares about you! Tell him ADIOS!
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