A question about orgasms..?

Question:

Ok, sometimes I feel like things are backwards with me and my hubby. When we have sex, if it lasts more than 30 minutes or so, he can 'get off' more than once, but not me. I have never been able to have multiple orgasms for some reason. Yes, I can orgasm when we have sex, and yes, I am 100% positive that I am actually reaching that point. Unfortunately, when I have an orgasm, it's REALLY strong, and I'm a little bit sore after that. It makes it impossible for us to continue, much less for me to climax again. I was just wondering if anyone else has this issue, if it's normal at all, and if there's anything I can do about it...
Thanks!

Answers:
Some women can have multiple orgasms, some cannot. You are lucky to have such strong orgasms. If you are sore afterwards, take a short break and then try adding some lube. Or try adding lube when you begin - that will help lower the friction so you don't get sore to begin with.

it's normal...yes women can have multiple orgasms...but not all women can...

Just as some women have multiple orgasms, some don't experience any. So getting one that too a strong one, is I think enough. Specially if you don't feel like continuing after that. You should be happy!

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Ok, first for your husband. There's a lot of difference between Multiple orgasms & ejaculatory orgasms.
Both feel the same. When he moves to a point of ejaculation, he will experience a series of genital contractions lasting 2 - 3 seconds. On controlling these contractions, the sensations will become progressively more intense. When a person is reaching this point, he should have the presence of mind to decrease his stimulation but not let the erection go down.
Effective control can be achieved in this manner.

1. Ask your husband to mastrubate. Just before reaching orgasm, he should stop. When the sensation is slowly dying down, ask him to start again. He can continue this for 4 - 5 times. He'll gain good control over his muscles that contract before orgasm.

2. Ask him to perform Ashwini Mudra. This a technique in Yoga which helps to control the contraction of the muscles in question. It also help to maintain blood flow to the penis & also maintain orgasm. He has to sit in a comfortable posture with a straight back. Ask him to start contracting his anus & concentrate his conscious awareness on the area at the base of the penis & be aware of this contraction. Every round should not exceed more than 25 - 30 times. Each successive practice session should be fresh & not exhaustive. you know what I mean. Let him practice this for 5 - 6 sessions in a row.

3. Ask him to practice deep breathing. This will help to control the anxiety before ejaculation & will help him gain emotional control & he can prolong his pleasurable sex.

4. In India, there are a lot of powerful accupressure points & massage techniques that can improve the stimulation & increase the length of pleasure before the final climax, both for Males & Females. This includes a combination of therauptic massage, Yoga, Acupressure & Acupuncture. But they will have to be administered by a qualified & experienced expert.
Now for you...

Try to get stimulated by;

1. Getting Clitotial massage
2. Getting an Anal Massage
3. Getting a breast massage
4. Then you can finally have your peak orgasm. In fact, in all these stages, you will experience orgasm in small portions. That will increase pleasure & will let you achieve a final climax, without any soreness.

You can also practice deep breathing. This will help. When you are getting to the climax at every stage, if you prefer to hold on, breathe deeply, enjoy the sensation, ask your husband to hold for a few seconds & start in the next area, you will know your favorite pleasure spots.

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Statistically, only about 20 to 30% of all women can have multiple orgasms, so yes it's normal. As women get older they can transition into being multiorgasmic.

What is bad about having 1 great orgasm.Think quality not quantity! ; p

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