Found out i had a miscarriage...so upset..?


Question:
i just found out today i had a miscarriage..but i wasnt far in my pregnancy. i was just wondering, if i try again, is it more likely to have another miscarriage or is it easier to get preg after a miscarriage?? ( that was my first pregnancy )

Answers:
Firstly, I'm very sorry for your loss. A miscarriage is a devastating experience. I had one myself at 10 weeks (only measured 5) back in '98

Miscarriages can occur in 1/5 pregnancies. The fact that you had one doesn't mean that you are at risk for another one. Granted, there are women who have multiple miscarriages, and once they've had 3, most doctors begin testing to see what is going on.

It isn't necessarily easier to get pregnant again after a miscarriage, nor is it harder. All women are different, so try not to compare your situation to another's. In my case, I became pregnant again about 5 months later, that was after waiting 3 cycles after the loss to try again.

Give yourself time to grieve, allow your body to heal physically and emotionally. Most ob/gyns suggest waiting at least 3 cycles. Once you are ready to ttc again, by all means go for it.

There are cases in which a woman must wait for up to a year, sometimes two, before beginning to ttc again. When the loss is due to a molar (or partial molar) pregnancy, then she must wait that long, b/c that sort of loss can bring on malignancy.

I wish you all the best, my heart goes out to you.
try again.

good luck!
I am soooooo sorry, honey.
I know how you feel.
I haven't personally been through it, but I know people.

Just try again.
I know your upset about this but you need to try to get pregnant again. Don't let this bring you down! Good luck
So sorry to hear that. Take it well and dont stress. I dont think theres a difference on how much the chances are to get pregnant after a smiscarriage. (:
I think you are more likely, but a miscarriage is actually a good thing. Your body is keeping constant tabs on the health of the baby and you. If it doesn't like what it sees then it miscarries.

I think the hard part will be dealing with the insensitive boobs that ask about your baby. I never ask anything about a baby until I actually see it pop out of the woman. A happy mother will be more than happy to volunteer information even if I don't ask.
talk to you MD find out why maybe can prevent another..
and your body needs time to heal
don't try to get pregnant for at least a year and a half was the formula in the olden days.
its not uncomman for alot of womans first pregnancy to miscarriage, but it is known that the next pregnancy will usually go full term and be healthy. do your homework and you will find out how comman miscarriage is, it is sad, but you are not alone with it. good look on your next pregnancy
i'm sorry to hear it.
but you can defintly try again! there are a million celebs i know with miscarriages, who still got kids.
im sorry to hear that, but don't give up, try again, and good luck all the way!
Sweetie, I'm so sorry about your miscarriage. I've had several friends have miscarriages, and they've all gone on to have healthy, term pregnancies.

Allow your body some time to heal (I believe 3 months was the recommendation to my friends), and then you should be ready to try again. As long as there isn't a medical reason your body doesn't want to carry a pregnancy, your next attempt at getting pregnant will have the same odds as usual.

Take this time to heal your heart, too. This baby will always hold a special place with you, and I wish you so much luck when you're ready for another baby!
Ohh Im sooo sorry! You can try but my friends aunt had 4 ina row then she got one so idk how long it will take for you to get one. sorry for your lost.
give your body time to heal properly and consult with your dr on his/her reasoning for the miscarriage, also seek healing from a counselor or church and then when you're totally healthy again - try again and god will bless you in his time - good luck..i miscarried x3 before my son was born
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