Uh what should i do?


Question:
this is a long story so i hope you have time.
i broke up with my boyfriend of 3 years a few weeks ago.
and he sent one of his friends a week ago to rape me.
im pregnant and i dont know what to do!
i dont believe in abortion but i dont know if i can keep the baby knowing its father almost killed me!

HELP!!

Answers:
Oh wow...Girl I'm sorry to hear that. Well think about it very well. I definitely wouldn't have an abortion but if you don't want the baby it's better to put if for adoption. Think about, you might change your mind during the process and even when you're giving birth. Please don't kill the baby, it's not his/her fault.
I'm very sorry. good luck!
Put it up for adoption so that two parents whom can not have children my have the opportunity to enjoy the joy of children.
What a terrible thing to do to somebody.
Did you tell the police? First thing you need to do is call the police-if it's only been a week, are you sure you're pregnant?
You need some help from an adult who loves you.
I just read your other questions.
You are a very sick little girl, get some help.
You're so full of BS, get some help. You changed "he raped me a week ago to, a few weeks ago, now you've been carrying for 9 months?
I hope you took action against who did this to you.
I am so sorry. I can't even imagine what you're going through.
I really don't believe in abortion.
There are so many people out there that can't have children of their own, so it's people like you that can give them a child.
If you could get through the pregnancy you would be giving 3 people miracles.
The 1st person would be the baby...you are giving that baby a chance at life.
The 2nd & 3rd people would be the parents.they would have the miracle of being a Mommy & Daddy.
It's really a hard decision to make.
But I hope everything works out for you, and again I am so sorry for your
pain :{
poor girl no one deserves to go through that. if i was you think about adoption giving a child to parents who can't have children is very awarding to them. my cousin was adoped into my family and my mum says that it was the specialest day for my auntry who couldn't have children. My cousin is still in contact with her birth parents and she knows that her mum was to young to keep her. If i was you i would put alot of thought into your choses.
abortion takes along time to recover emotional it makes you feel like your a murder of an un born child. My friend had an abortion when she was 16 shes 25 now and she still hasn't recover.
anyway i hope i have helped and i am very sorry to hear remeber there are alot of help out their for women like you
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