Ugh cheaters ..?
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I am soooo sorry to hear about what you've been through.
The bad news: nothing but time will really help you get over this. The good news: time WILL help you get over this!
In the meantime, try to keep yourself busy. Some people like to be alone, some people like to do things with friends. Just keep yourself busy so that you can keep your mind off HIM, IT, HER.
I know it's especially tough since you lost your virginity to him, but I assure you, there will be other guys. And things can only get better. Not all guys are jerks. You should be thankful that you found out right away what kind of a guy he was. You avoided "wasting" any more time on him. Any guy who cheats on you is NOT worthy of you. He doesn't deserve you. Sounds cliche, but it's true!
Count your blessings. Keep your chin up. Find someone to talk to. Go out and at least try to have some fun. Things WILL get better.
At least you found out what he was like in only six months. Imagine those who find out much later in the relationship..say in marriage.
First thing is its always hard when you've lost your virginity to someone to try and get over the fact that they hurt you.
I know its hard but you need to try and forget him, if hes not loyal to you hes not worth your time!
Try some herbal stress relief such as teas and over-the-counter solutions to make you feel happier
The feelings will pass eventually just hold on!
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that really stinks...there is really no way to get over someone like that it just takes time. Whenever you really feel ready to start seeing other guys than do it, but if you still feel uncomfortable than just take time to recover and believe me, you will get over him
Well, I don't know it will work for you, but I was really cut up after a bad breakup and I picked up a hobby (something physical) that I could just work myself to exhaustion doing.
Plus, I had to keep my mind focused on what I was doing, so it afforded me some time when I wasn't thinking about my ex. You should see about picking up something new.
I am sorry you had to go though that situation, but you know what? what doesn't kill you only makes you stronger. Forget about that boyfriend, he is obviously not worth crying for. He is a loser and you are so young, it will pass. Don't worry, a lot of us have gone though that and survived and are now in happy realtionships with true love.
Oops I came in here as thought you meant the tv show.
Now I am here I really feel for you.
It is especially sad that he has cheated on you as you allowed him to take your virginity and assumed you were taking his.
It is going to be a tough ride for you for quite a while but you HAVE to try to get on with life, meet up with your friends, do odinary living like you would be doing if you 2 were still dating but spending the day night apart.
The best thing you can do is go out and have fun but don't fall into the trap of ging out with someone else to try to make him jalous as it wont work, you will just degrade yourself and end up feeling worthless. never give up frinds for a partner as your friends will always be there at times like this when you need them.
You just have to remember that this guy isn't worth it. He wanted to know what sex is about and now he does he is off planting his seed elsewhere, do you really want to be with a guy who is so shallow and an awful personality that he would let you loose your virginity to him then move on ever so quickly?
Go dancing, cinema, bowling, spend some time alone. A good piece of advice is do NOT remember the happy times you had with him until you are completely over him otherwise you will find you want him back and he is not worth it.
It will take time but you will get there, don't let this one experience make you think all men are the same as I am sure they are not. I have some good straight male pals who wouldnt dream of treating a girl like that.
the cryinbg is a natural part of your grieving for him and grieving is also natural.
gOOD LUCK WITH YOUR FUTURE
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