First.?
Question:
does it just hurt when he first pushes in..
or does it hurt the entire time?
Answers:
The pain comes when the hymen is broken and there may be a small bit of blood, and pain upon the stretching of the vaginal walls as you "get used" to his size. It is not easy to really experience the satisfaction you hear about your first time because you are so tensed up knowing there will be pain/discomfort. But, after a few days (rest before doing it again to give yourself time to heal), you and your partner should be able to develop ways to enjoy the performance. Don't let the first time scare you off from doing it again because it can be a very joyful experience.
hurts or that is at least what i heard cuz your hole is small and the man has to open it up
It hurts for when he breaks you in, then it don't hurt.. just gross cause ur full of blood! Be careful!!
It depends on how aroused or lubricated you are. It will be uncomfortable as you need to stretch the first few times to get comfortable.
For some, the first few times might make you feel sore, as it's been an unused muscle or even hurt, if you aren't properly lubericated, like the guy is in a hurry, doesn't arouse you and your body isn't ready.
Relaxing, foreplay, being fully aroused or better yet, you having an orgasm FIRST or using a lubricant like KY-Jelly or Astro-Glide can help.
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