Sex hurts :(?

Question:

I've been with my bf for 1 yr and I love him so much! Even thought I really enjoy our sex life there's one problem. When his penis touches my vagina to enter I feel pain so we have to take our time and move slowly. Then when he's in it doesn't hurt anymore and I enjoy it a lot. I went to the doctor, she had a look and she said that everything was OK and that it can be a psychological problem (I began experiencing it when I was my my ex-bf). But I still feel it!!

Answers:
i have the same kinda problem

when my bf enters it gives a really sharp pain that i literally have to hold his hips back so that he doesnt go in to far or to quick. but after a few minutes it all seems to go away i have found that the harder he is the sorer it is. so i tried having sex with him lying on his side and me the same and come to find that it didnt hurt as much. i think you should try some diff positions and see what happens from there. good luck chick. hope you get the problem sorted but your not the only one this happens to so no need to worry x x x x x

just practice. Practice makes perfect ^_^

IF IT ONLY HURTS WHILE HES ENTERING JUST RUSH AND LET HIM FORCE IT THORUGH REALLY FAST ITLL BE OVER IN 3 SEONDS

Hmmmmm, that is a problem, but it is kinda kinky!

almost everyone feels it that way.. so don worry about it..
nothing will happen to you.. just enjoy after it is inside urs..

I used to get that too. It's nothing to worry about, just go slow, overtime it should go. If the doctor says there's nothing wrong then believe her. Everyone's different just take it at your pace

Try using lubricant.

i still get the same problem with my bf. all i can suggest is lots of foreplay and a bottle of lube!

try using some of the new lubricants.. maybe the tingly feeling from them will help lessen the pain.. also maybe try toys that will lessen the sensitivity..

I had exactly the same problem when I started seeing my last boyfriend, but it soon went away. I think mine was a mixture of nerves and the fact that I had had a long gap between partners and I simply wasn't used to it. It did stop hurting after a couple of times and with a bit more 'preparation' everything was fine.

Sex hurts :(?

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