What do you think? genuine or not?
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Its the Real Deal.
Saying "I love you" is the hardest thing for most guys to say, including me, since at this day and age...sex has become so casual that you don't need to say it to get it...but once you've said it, it brings a whole lot of other dimension into it...because then, if the woman says "i love you too", suddenly there's now more to the casual sex...there's mutual understanding of some sort of commitment...
Perhaps that explains the jealous guy in him you recently observe.
OK, ok...so some boys do still smooth talk girls with promises of love and so on to get to their virginal flowers (talk about high school!)...but in the case of you and your friend are clearly way past this, and are mature enough...hence the hesitation on your friend's to say "it"...
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i honestly do think he loves you
Sounds like he has fallen for you in the real sense. Perhaps you could talk this over with him and take the relationship to a higher level.
It sounds geuniue.
His jealousy could be because he loves you, but it could also be controlling behavior that has nothing to do with you. He might just be a little unsure of himself and not want to be rejected if he says he loves you. If you think he likes you, and you like him, go for it and try dating.
I also think this question would be better answered in the Dating and Relationships category, as this has more to do with the health of the relationship than in your physical health.
sounds like he is either keeping his options open or he really does love you maybe he's been hurt before and is a little scared of it this time just come right out and ask him if you've already built a friendship then the rest should come naturally
Take a chance, stop sleeping witht he other cut down from going out with 6 men on dates to maybe 3 and give him a chance. If things changes then atleast you know "Hell i gave him a chance and hes the one that fucked up" But if your just laying there and hes saying that he loves you. Maybe you shouldnt think its a lie and tell him how you feel.
just take it slow,one step at a time,sometimes genuine love takes time...let it grow like a plant...spend meaningful time together or with your other friends and loved ones
Sounds like you need to just sit down and have a real, honest, open discussion. Every lasting relationship is based on honesty. Ask him instead of us.
well if he had already gotten what he wanted what would he have to gain by telling you he loves you... he has no reason to lie...id say its genuine and id say go for the whole relationship..
Jock
U should not hang with any guy. I think its not a matter abt child just do sex.. Ask him but What I think if he want to do sex with u and he is not asking to do sex with u thats mean he is stuped. U may ask and I am haveing hard time to answer this qustion cause I am not adult and I am just 14....
I have 1 qustion for u when did u sleep with him did he touch ur boobs and *****?
Ok.... I want to say true
Don't do sex with anyone whom is not ur hasband. Just look at ur children face and Please don't do sex with any other guy and don't even sleep with him...
"friends with benefits" for three months. wow. After pondering that, I'd say that maybe he does mean what he's saying.
Is he good to your kids? That will say a LOT if he really 'means it'. You're a package deal.
Or, had you guys had a few bottles of wine? That can also affect the words that come out... but I'd be more inclined to know how he treats your kids. If he loves them as much as he professes to love you, then I'd believe him. If he's more interested in the 'friends with benefits', I'd move on.
It sounds like it's genuine! If he is good to you and he likes to hang out with you even without sex then I'd say it's the real deal.
Good luck sweetie, I hope it works out for ya! :)
you can feel it. what do you think? what do you feel? the best person to know this question is you. Think about it it's only been three months into the relationship although there has been story's of people falling in love at first sight and live happily ever after do you think your one of them? You both have children and pretty much know what you want right? If you like this guy and he likes you and if you want to take it far you may want to consider how he feels about you hanging out with other men only you know what you want. this can go as far as you want it to go he might be afraid to get his feeling's hurt so that's why he holds him self back from saying the big
I,L,U. people can fall for each other in such a short term but it can be risky . I say put some time and allot of thought to it because the last thing you want is for your child to see different men in your life and in your child's life know what you want in a man and see for yourself where you would like to be in five or ten years from now or how about the rest of your life. Not only do you have to think about your future but also for your child's future because no matter who you pick or who you marry this man is going to be in your child's life and it better be a good one. You pray to God and get guidance from him you sure don't want to get hurt or hurt any one.
Good luck.
No doubt in my mind.. He's genuine.
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