I feel left behind?


Question:
I am 13 years old, almost 14. I am very active ,and i am really skinny. And I havent gotten my period yet. The problem is that I am really flat-chested. And it doesnt usually bother me because I like myself, but since its bathing suit season and such, I have really started to notice that all my friends are way chestier than me. I am starting to worry a little bit about it. Am I ever going to look like that? Is there anything that I can do about it besides surgery? Thanks.

Answers:
don't let such a silly thing worry you, I've been with many women on a personal level and not once was her breast size even a consideration, some girls are late bloomers and the advantage is when your friends hit menopause you'll still be going strong, use these years to prepare your mind for the challenges which are very near, I promise mother nature knows exactly what she is doing and you'll be having all those things you wish for breast pit and pubic hair and then that event refer ed to as a period, some women have another name for it they call it the curse, you know bloating, cramping, changing pads or tampons never knowing for sure when your gonna start especially the first year or 2, most will say enjoy your care free days while you can for tomorrow we menstruate! best wishes!
Surgery won't help. Just let nature run it's course... it'll come eventually.
Choose swimsuits with a padded cup in them, and that have stripes or patterns on them!!
Your body needs a certain amount of fat content before you will start to menstruate. Girls who are very active often start their periods at a later age than other girls. Don't even think about being concerned until you are 17 or 18 and still haven't had a period.
Dont worry!! I was the exact same way. I'm a dancer so i'm really skinny and I didnt get my period 'till I was 14 1/2. I also didnt have boobs but that changed. Don't feel shy just cause your flat-chested, be proud of it cause some girls who have huge boobs, hate it and would kill to be as small as you. So when you're with your friends at the pool don't worry who's "bigger" or "smaller" cause you'll get there. And by the way don't be in a hurry to get your period. I was and was sorry later. I hope I helped.
join my ittie bittie tittie committee! i'm 25 and i still have that problem! anyway, because youre active, your development may not have caught up just yet. in the event that you dont end up with major mamories, look on the bright side, you'll be the only one whose boobs aren't around her waist at 50
You will just have to wait. Sorry, its probably not want you wanted to hear.
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