Help with little sister's self esteem!?
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thanks so much in advance!
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Try running with her or something. She'll feel better about her weight because she's exercising, she gets to spend some time with you (it sounds like she looks up to you a bit), and a little exercise is good for everyone =P
She sounds a lot like me. I was painfully self-concious about my weight even though I was skinny at her age. Some psychological damage has been done to make her think that she's fat. Could be the media, could be nasty comments from her friends (as it was for me).
The best way to deal with this is complementing her, watching out that she doesn't develop an eating disorder, and just making her aware that people come in tons of sizes and size zero isn't necessarily the prettiest. If someone had done that for me, it'd made a world of difference.
Tell her she looks sexy it seems to work with me
omg that is a weight most people her age would love to have! tell her that she's pretty and take her to the mall and stuff let her have fun let her friends go and let her just do little things like that.
Tell her that
Don’t deprive yourself of your self-worth!!
You are not alone in this world..
Don't deprive yourself of your self-worth!!
You only need a HELPING HAND,
just like anyone else out who does at any point of their lives!!
Look no further than where you are already at!!
Your self-worth needs just that little boosting
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