I need help ... rape!?
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She needs to tell her mother as soon as possible. If she is to shy to tell her on her own you could be there with her for moral support, but none the less she needs to tell and she needs to see a doctor as soon as possible.
Best of luck
she has to tell her mom and she has to see a doctor because there could be something wrong with her and she can also call the police
1. make her break up with her bf if she hasn't done it all ready
2. Her mum has to know this. Talk to her, tell her her mother WILL back her up , no matter what happened. Try her to understand that her mother will know if there is anything wrong with her , and will find out in the end. It is much better that she tells her mother what is going on now! Her mother can help her , take her to the doctor, ...
Now you can do 2 things :
- If she told her mother , let her mother handle this. Support your friend trough everything. Listen to her. Listening is probably the best thing you can do. And if she is over the shock, you are the person who must help her refind trust in people (especially boys). But that's advice 4 the future.
- If she didn't told her mum, go to the doctor with her. it is so important that she goes to the doctor. If she doesn't want to go to the doctor , make an appointment for her and go with her anyway.
How long is it ago? Maybe she can still take the morning-after-pil? An unwanted pregnancy is much worse...
when i have to tell my mom something awkward, i write it down, and slip the paper under her door. this makes it easier to talk later. hope this helps, send her my love. xxx
Well it is up to her. Some advice would be do not get boyfriends that are rapists. Here is a site with advice for teenage girls. Maybe this will help you with what you can do for her.
http://www.phifoundation.org/teen.html...
She really needs her mother's help and support on this, too. Unless her mom is usually really unreasonable or uptight, she won't be mad at her - her first concern will be protecting and helping her daughter. The best thing you can do for your friend is be there for her and hold her hand - go with her when she tells her mom so you can soothe her and help explain things if she finds it too difficult to talk.
Your friend and/or her mother should call her doctor immediately and make an appointment for today, if possible. They can run a bunch of basic lab tests to see if she is pregnant (might be too early to tell) or if she caught any STDs.
Then she needs to report the rape to the police. The boyfriend (hopefully EX-boyfriend by now) needs to learn that date-rape is still rape, and is definitely NOT okay. If she tries to blame herself or make excuses for the boyfriend, keep her grounded and remind her of the facts of the case. Encourage her to break up witht he boyfriend permanently - he's already proven he has no respect for her and will put his lusts before her needs.
You're a good friend; keep up the good work.
as much as she may hate you for it you need to convincer her to tell her mom or you need to tell someone .. especially if she is pregnant then she will need a doctor
this is really serious, she has to tell her mom , yea it's going to be hard to do, tell her you will be there with her. and then immediately go down to the clinic or doctor to see if she's okay.
report it to the police.
god bless. hope everything turns out okay.
she needs to go in and she needs to do it now. he needs to be punished for what he did. it may be hard for her to do..but she really needs to do it.
Rape - RAINN Hotline 1-800-656-HOPE(4673)
She needs to see a doctor as soon as possible and make a report.
First of all god bless you to!.
What i want to say that is takes two to tango! She could have sed yes before and then when it came to the crunch point she never wanted to do it. I think how you phrased this question she is lieing to you because she wants to get your attention. But in case this is not her and you dont think for one minute this is what she would do lets take the other option which she was raped. Rape is a serious issue which she should consult the police. Many parents think right it is the girls fault as she should have pushed the boy away and stuff! but it is hard. If she did have unprotected sex with this boy, it would depend whether he came, or pre ejaculated in her, which sounds like which did happen to which she is scared she is pregnant. I suspect she is havin periods and at her childbearing age!. So therefore pregnancy could be a possibility. If she misses her next period and she tell you she does tell her to take a pregnancy test and be there for her when she does and await the result. If she is irregula ( meaning not ever 28 days) then i would suggest wait 2 weeks afer missed period. However if she is regular ( every 28 days) then take it the first day after missed period. From her boyfriend was unnaceptable and should be reported ( especially if this girl is under the age 16) as it is illegal and the boy could be done even if she is over the age of 16 and she can prove she has been raped the boy could be arrested again which is the best for your girlfriend. Telling her mom could be a bit difficult, but she needs to do it. Tell her mom what you have told YouQA.com . But she needs to tell her mom. But tell her to dump her boyfriend as he is not worth it, however if you find out she is lieing for any reason dump her cause you dont want a friend like that. I hope i helped and i hope you can find courage to help yourself and your best friend
I wish you all the best and the very best of luck. God bless you!
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