Will this feeling go away? (For the ladies)?
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Rape is a very hard thing for some people to get over , obviously. Have you spoken to anyone about this? A doctor, psychiatrist?
It depends on how much it has effected you. Everyone is different. How long ago was it since you have been raped? If you really dont feel like you can be intimiate with someone ever again, i would go see a doctor. It was a good thing that you defintely tried, perhaps that means that you are coming to grips with what happend and moving on in your life. Obviously by the after effects, i would say you need more time to heal.
Take it slow, dont rush it and see if you can get some professional help. Good luck hun.
Umm...are you a girl? Cause if you were raped then I guess you could feel weird...but I think everyone feels weird after they "do it' for the 1st time.
as long as you remember it, then you will recover.
No the rape meant nothing, and with this person it's special. It'll just take time to get used to.
the first thing you need to think about when sleeping with sum1 is if you're ready for it, especially since you've been sexually abused before. you probably thought that you were ok with it but sometime during the act you began thinking about what happened to you. this is normal, i've felt this way once but it went away. my question to you is "are you fully recovered emotionally?" ..this feeling of being sick after wards will disappear soon enough..
I know how you feel, and still sometimes I get a flashback from years ago. But what I do, is try to separate the two. That was something wrong, and this is something good. Do your best to block it out during sex and anytime before or after. Eventually it will go away, it just takes some time to adjust. Just let yourself relax, I know it's hard, but you'll get there. I'd explain it to her, and tell her you need some time to get the hang of things. Good Luck.
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