Girls orgasms?
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I have heard that masturbation before sex can help you reach an orgasm.
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You shouldn't be having sex if you aren't married. Maybe that is your problem.
If he's doing everything right he just needs to do it for longer. Ask him to continue to do the right things for longer and if he asks why tell him you want to take more time to enjoy it. If you have a real orgasm he'll notice the difference and want to continue.
maybe hes not doin everything right if its not workin
you should have waited til' after you were married.
Do you know of something that really arouses you? I would say use that in collaboration with the stuff you do with your bf and see if that helps.
The same sorta thing happened for me, but when i gave my girl an orgasm for the first time, it was easier as it went on.
You're a child...that's what's wrong...grow up, then ask.
It could be many reasons. If he finishes too soon you may not have a chance. There are different ways to have an Orgasm - external and internal. External stimulation may work better. Also, if you can have one without him, you are okay? Therefore it may take some time to figure out what works best for the two of you. He would have to be committed to the process though and very unselfish.
maybe he could give you oral untill you orgasm then have sex so your both satisfied.
You could try ribbed condoms
you could spice things up abit with forplay or if hes cumming to quickley you can get a numbing paste or spray so he will last longer and you could also get him some viagra and some women say it also works on them.
Good luck
Perhaps he's not found the "spot"...because if he had, you'd be bouncing off the walls with delight. Show him where your c_l_i_t oris is...most men couldn't find it with both hands and a road map. Touch yourself and show him what feels good to you.
Or, doggystyle will help to stimulate the above organ,...works just about every time.
Good grief, you should be able to obtain an orgasm married or not. Do you feel you both have open communication? Do you feel comfortable telling him what feels good and doesn't? That is a big part. Do you utilize lots of foreplay? Many women do not orgasm from intercourse, it is the clitoral stimulation. Have you tried c-rings etc? Have you tried doggy style with him reaching around and playing with your clit? If all else fails, massage your clitioris yourself while having intercourse. Some men find this alone a big turn on. And if you are in a mature relationship this should not be embarassing! Good Luck!
If you don't get an orgasm, he's not doing everything right. If you can't enjoy the sex with him then he's not the right one for you. I never had a problem with my husband, but I'm now a widow and don't get pleasure from having sex with my boyfriend. I don't know if I want to spend my life with him or not. Sexual pleasure plays a big part in weather you will make it or not.
There's nothing wrong with you. But please don't fake orgasm. It does nothing for anyone in the long run.
First of all relax. Try focusing solely on you and your pleasure. Don't feel pressured. Come clean and tell him you really want to have orgasms with him but you just cant seem to relax. Ask for his help. Try lube, toys, erotica, magazines - whatever turns you on. If any of this embarrasses you, its gonna be hard. You should be able to masturbate in front of him and show him what you like; how you do it.
It takes a lot of trust to give up control of your body to another person. It may not happen right away, but with enough trust and enough patience, you'll get there.
Best of luck to you!
i am sure u have not tried 69, u r ***** in his mouth and his pennis in yours.
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